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+1 A friend of mine from college basically pretended she was interested in a specific area of study that she had zero actual interest in, in order to get a scholarship that was necessary for her to attend. She kept that as her major for two years as required by the scholarship while pursuing coursework in her actual interest area, then switched majors before junior year when she qualified for a different scholarship based on grades. Was this a little shady? Sure, she really never had any interesting that original interest area. Do I think she didn't "deserve" to be at the school? Of course not, her approach was ingenious and think how much faith she had to have in herself to trust she'd be able to pull the high GPA to qualify for that upperclassman scholarship while essentially pursuing two fields of study, including one that was not a true area of interest in her. I admired her. You have to be willing to do stuff like that to succeed in this world. It's interesting that when a poor kid does it, she's a conman. When a rich kid does it, he's smart. |
I actually blame the mother for letting it get this far. How did she not speak up? |
I am the poster who just word vomited her horror at this thread all over the last page. I was not referring to you, although I am wondering why you have chosen this case upon which to plant your flag in the mountain. I agree there is systemic racism in this country and that McKenzie benefits from being white. But there is no black student here to compare her with. For sure, there are invisible black students in this tale who have not gotten the attention she has, but McKenzie herself has not done anything racist that we know of. Arguably, she put herself in a very vulnerable position with the school in order to help a black family get justice for a wrongful death. Why is her privilege relevant here? She is wronged. The point you seem to want to make so vociferously is that if she was black she would have been MORE wronged. Which sure, ok, I agree, she likely would have been more wronged and more mistreated if she were black. But it seems to me like the wrong part of the story to focus on. This is about one girl, who was severely abused, and her path through a system that failed her at multiple levels. Who is using her privilege to put herself on display for all the harpies in this thread to pick apart to shine a light on those failures who fail people with much smaller microphones. As for the poster saying her professors are creepy...I don't even know what to say to you. When you are from a wealthy family and in a vulnerable situation, your teachers are frequently the only people you trust. She has found a makeshift family in educators, a group of people she likely has deep trust for, as her teachers at her prep school were the ones who sounded the alarm and looked out for her and who she reached out to in her darkest moment. When you have no one else to help you, and someone reaches out, if you can, you take their hand. |
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I think the mother was happy her daughter was being successful and didn't want to get in her way. Otherwise she has to be incredibly checked out not to have intervened.
"Mackenzie, if you don't stop lying to reporters, I will tell them your hospitalization was really a psychiatric hold" I agree with Mackenzie. Either way she a terrible parent. |
| I'm absolutely sickened by this thread and hope it's just one person with an axe to grind hate posting against this woman. |
| Why don’t we just let this play out in court. |
| Does the filing from Penn actually state that McKenzie was in the hospital on a psych hold? |
Unfortunately if you read the prior thread, you’ll see that it’s multiple sickos. |
I mean honestly it confirms the abuse. And what Penn did talking to her mother was a clear FERPA violation. |
Strangely she didn’t want to be prosecuted in Federal court for her crimes. Hmmm what a victim. |
She didn't commit any crimes but was trying to save herself from a vindictive administrator. This isn't going to trial, Penn is going to quietly pat her a boatload of money. And she deserves it. They tried to ruin her life because some admin was dumb enough to listen to her abuser. |
I wonder if she has filed a FERPA complaint? |
I think Penn is in the wrong here, but why wouldn’t they have already tried to settle? Why the 90 page response? |
If they don't file a Response they risk default and responses are on a deadline. The negotiations take time. |
She has always contended, and continues to, that her FAFSA was correct. She listed herself as first-gen on the FAFSA in keeping with the consistent federal definition that a child who has aged out of the foster care system has no family of origin and therefore must, by definition, be first-gen. The reason her lawyer advised her not to respond to the final determination is that once a federal prosecution for FAFSA fraud is initiated, it's an expensive and lengthy ordeal. It's not because she thought she'd lose, it's because she didn't want to engage in a multi-year federal criminal prosecution. But sure, let's decide that someone who had not lived with her mother for years and had zero financial support from her her was obligated (despite years of contrary precedent) to list her estranged mother as a source of financial support for college. Would Carey have even provided the necessary financial info to do this? The whole point here is that Mackenzie DID NOT HAVE FAMILY FINANCIAL SUPPORT. Just like any other student who was emancipated, abandoned, or aged out of the foster system. Mackenzie may not look like the picture you have in your head of a student with no financial support, but she is. And if that makes you mad, your anger is best placed on the parent who abused Mackenzie and then withdrew financial support. Do you honestly think Carey was ready to help send Mackenzie to college and Mackenzie just decided to run some scheme to get someone else to pay for it? That doesn't make sense. If Carey was willing and able to pay, why wouldn't Mackenzie just let her? The answer is that she wasn't, and also Mackenzie knew that any offer of support could be used as stick to continue to abuse her. Because that's what abusive parents do. |