What do men think of women who have ONS?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 26 year female that moved here for the summer and want to expand my horizons. I didn't have my first bf until I was 20, due to aspects of my childhood. I've had two boyfriends and that's it. I'm in this spot where I want to experience new things sexually and maybe with 1-3 more partners. I want to date around with freedom and no pressure. I feel I'm only young once and it's best I do this now instead of feeling like I missed out later in life. However, I don't know if men will still find me respectable if I have a ONS or fling. I do want marriage and family, and wouldn't want a guy to view me as less than marriage material. Men - what do you think of this? Would you care or not?

[Anonymous]

They wont know unless they ask and no one really asks about a persons sexual past anymore. Its all assumed that everyone lies.

[Anonymous]

Would you really want to marry a man who wouldn't marry a woman who had had five partners including a one-night stand? I haven't racked up crazy numbers, but I had some fun in my 20s-it's not been an issue.

[Anonymous]

Gross. They think "gross"

[Anonymous]

I am a man and I wouldn't care, nor would I ask.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a man and I wouldn't care, nor would I ask.

PP, here again. To be honest, some men are uptight this stuff, and some really don't see past sexual hookups as a problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a man and I wouldn't care, nor would I ask.

PP, here again. To be honest, some men are uptight this stuff, and some really don't see past sexual hookups as a problem.

NP here. I would argue that these kinds of men are not worth pursuing if you consider yourself to be a more open, free-spirited individual. Personally, I wouldn't want to end up with a conservative, traditional guy who would judge me for my sexual past if it included some sexual experimentation/ONS. I ended up with a guy who is well-suited to me sexually and otherwise, so for me it was fine.

[Anonymous]

I am 47 and really shaking my head that "numbers" are still a thing in 2015. It's how you treat others and how you let them treat you that matters.

[Anonymous]

Do it girl.

With the right person it can be fun and empowering, IMO.

With the wrong person it can suck.

But not that hard to find the right guy!

[Anonymous]

Most guys don't care. Most woman have ONS.

You are free to do what you want. Go for it and be safe.

[Anonymous]

Thanks. I definitely plan on being safe. What is the way to pick up attractive 20 - 30 something's in DC? Bars, a site..? I'm more into a casual fling that a ONS.

I had a friend who had sort of a fling with a guy who turned out to be married. That's what I'm trying to avoid. I guess I just want a normal guy who can get rough and kinky and good in bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks. I definitely plan on being safe. What is the way to pick up attractive 20 - 30 something's in DC? Bars, a site..? I'm more into a casual fling that a ONS.

I had a friend who had sort of a fling with a guy who turned out to be married. That's what I'm trying to avoid. I guess I just want a normal guy who can get rough and kinky and good in bed.

Bar. Pool hall. I'd say your safest bet is to hang out with someone casually and then see where it goes. If your looking for it it will happen .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks. I definitely plan on being safe. What is the way to pick up attractive 20 - 30 something's in DC? Bars, a site..? I'm more into a casual fling that a ONS.

I had a friend who had sort of a fling with a guy who turned out to be married. That's what I'm trying to avoid. I guess I just want a normal guy who can get rough and kinky and good in bed.

Bar. Pool hall. I'd say your safest bet is to hang out with someone casually and then see where it goes. If your looking for it it will happen .

I think the bar might make it tough because I don't really drink. Maybe the gym?

[Anonymous]

Why not just do online dating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a 26 year female that moved here for the summer and want to expand my horizons. I didn't have my first bf until I was 20, due to aspects of my childhood. I've had two boyfriends and that's it. I'm in this spot where I want to experience new things sexually and maybe with 1-3 more partners. I want to date around with freedom and no pressure. I feel I'm only young once and it's best I do this now instead of feeling like I missed out later in life. However, I don't know if men will still find me respectable if I have a ONS or fling. I do want marriage and family, and wouldn't want a guy to view me as less than marriage material. Men - what do you think of this? Would you care or not?[/quot

What kind of guys do you find really sexy or hot? That will give you an idea of where to look.

You definitely need to scratch a few of them off of your bucket list before marriage!