Friend is cheating on her husband with multiple men

[Anonymous]

Do I just keep my opinion to myself ? I feel abit disgusted and disappointed. She is also after men with money.

[Anonymous]

I would no longer be this person's friend.

Disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Sounds kind of hot. What's she like? Did she marry young? Or perhaps she married at 31ish, and now she's 35-36 and wants to be banged by the type of guys she had in HS and College?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would no longer be this person's friend.

Disgusting.

Agreed. Would find a way to let husband know too. He deserves to know what filfth he married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would no longer be this person's friend.

Disgusting.

Agreed. Would find a way to let husband know too. He deserves to know what filfth he married.

+1

[Anonymous]

He'll find out eventually.

I would just distance myself from her and and let karma handle the rest.

[Anonymous]

My other friebds( we have mutual friends who know this too) saying that I am being too judgmental and that I live in a fairytale world. I just can't understand what is what? Am I being judgmental? But how can I not judge? She is my very good friend and what upsets me the most that I used to think very very highly of her. Just personal disappointment I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My other friebds( we have mutual friends who know this too) saying that I am being too judgmental and that I live in a fairytale world. I just can't understand what is what? Am I being judgmental? But how can I not judge? She is my very good friend and what upsets me the most that I used to think very very highly of her. Just personal disappointment I guess.

You're not being too judgemental. How would they like it if they were being cheated on? Which fantasy world are they talking about anyway? Is it fantasy to expect fidelity, especially when fidelity was promised?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He'll find out eventually.

I would just distance myself from her and and let karma handle the rest.

This

[Anonymous]

Any chance they have an open marriage or a "don't ask don't tell" thing going on? Maybe her husband gets turned on by her sleeping with other men. Weird dynamic but a friend of mine feels that way about his wife.

[Anonymous]

If she's married, why is she 'after' men with money to cheat with? Is her husband not going to notice and question a new expensive handbag or piece of jewelry if they buy her one? Or is her endgame to eventually find someone richer to leave her husband for?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He'll find out eventually.

I would just distance myself from her and and let karma handle the rest.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she is bringing the money back to her husband. He could be pimping her out. Sexy!

[Anonymous]

I would be honest and tell her I don't agree with her behavior. If I was uncomfortable hearing details I would ask her to not share anything about the affairs with me. If the friendship is of value to me I would say it once and then MYOB amd let it go.

[Anonymous]

While it's awful what she is doing to her husband, I also feel bad for her. She must have some deep rooted issues that are causing her to act out like this. She is going to be left lonely and even more unhappy than she already is.

Do you know what is going on in their marriage? I ask because I have a friend that when you see her and her husband you think they are a great couple. Behind closed doors he bullies her and has even struck her a few times.

I wouldn't talk to the husband, but if she is a friend of yours, I would talk to her and ask her what she is doing and what is causing her to do it. Maybe by helping your friend, you can get to the heart of the matter.