Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

The whole “I tend to underperform on big days” narrative….
WTF???? Her whole thing is performance…be in on big days, small days and every size day in between. How many “I go big that’s what I do” posts have we seen? ITS HER WHOLE THING.

She’s a chameleon changing to fit the audience and sell her life based on the mood and room she’s in.

Its. All. Fake.

[Anonymous]

I think the “I tend to underperform on big days” was a cover for Tyler not spending anytime with her over the holidays. She staged it as she she’d rather have quiet time with her family and to go to bed at early at 11:00. If Tyler had been around it would have been the biggest best New Year’s Eve she’d ever had, complete with the 2022 highlight recaps and intentions for 2023 that she dissed in her post.

[Anonymous]

Hey guys, let's all say the same thing without reading other posts as if we're all having an original thought 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The whole “I tend to underperform on big days” narrative….
WTF???? Her whole thing is performance…be in on big days, small days and every size day in between. How many “I go big that’s what I do” posts have we seen? ITS HER WHOLE THING.

She’s a chameleon changing to fit the audience and sell her life based on the mood and room she’s in.

Its. All. Fake.

I believe this is the OG Blogger way, though. See also: Glennon and on slightly different scale, Kate Gosselin for a brief time.

Next steps will likely be to find a Black female partner.

[Anonymous]

Tyler's podcast interview from April 2022: https://anchor.fm/letsgiveadamn/episodes/225---Tyler-Merritt-e1gnhjl

Skip to 1 hour min 1 mark where host asks Tyler if his decision to live in Nashville or NYC is dependent on his new relationship with Jen Hatmaker and Tyler says:

1. He emphasizes how new they are and that they have the income to be able to live apart and still see each other (e.g. NYC meet ups etc)
2. "You know how it is, being my age and Jen being someone who is divorced and older, with children, as soon as we got together people asked if we were marrying."
3. I live in Nashville and she's in Austin and we go and meet up in NYC and we make it work. That is NOT the commitment and "deep partnership" she describes as theirs or what she seems to want.
4. "Real talk. We are dating. There is something to be appreciated being apart. You know what I'm saying, I get to be apart from the person I absolutely adore."
--This is NOT how she described what she wanted on her podcast. How sad that she's telling herself it's okay that 4 months in, he wants that much space
5. She told him "we will never apologize for our hustle" when he dropped off communication with her

Tyler also commented on how in NYC she likes to stay in the center near Times Square and he wants to be in a hole in wall near theater district where he can walk out to a theater and run for a nap after.

I can't imagine they have ANY goals or relationship expectations in common. He's an only child manbaby. She is going to feel so stupid when this dies so publicly.

The way he speaks about her is so different for how she speaks of him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought it was established that Brandon left Jen, not the other way around? I thought he said so in his podcast.

This is correct. He cheated, and spent thousands on gambling, and then went to "rehab" but came out and started drinking again and decided he wasn't really an addict, and then left Jen, not the other way around. She was willing to work it out but he didn't want to have this hanging over his head so he moved on. And I don't really believe that this was all about trauma. He has been an attention-seeking douche for decades. At ANC he was the kind of guy looking over your shoulder to see if there is someone more important he should be talking to and trying to be cool all the time. Always spent more money than he should have on clothes and trucks. He's flashy and he could not handle his wife getting the attention he wanted.

I had to laugh at the person who said he's not cosplaying but in a "real" motorcycle gang. Grown men in any kind of a gang are still cosplaying.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BVe8pHoBIVI/

[Anonymous]

Where have her closest girlfriends been? I mean why did only her mom have to help with last minute gift-wrapping? Why were no besties mentioned at the ANC service where she spoke, or on any of her trips…none of the usual tag-along guests for fun excursions and dinners…and no girls night for Brandon-Barbie wedding weekend?! Seems strange.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tyler's podcast interview from April 2022: https://anchor.fm/letsgiveadamn/episodes/225---Tyler-Merritt-e1gnhjl

Skip to 1 hour min 1 mark where host asks Tyler if his decision to live in Nashville or NYC is dependent on his new relationship with Jen Hatmaker and Tyler says:

1. He emphasizes how new they are and that they have the income to be able to live apart and still see each other (e.g. NYC meet ups etc)
2. "You know how it is, being my age and Jen being someone who is divorced and older, with children, as soon as we got together people asked if we were marrying."
3. I live in Nashville and she's in Austin and we go and meet up in NYC and we make it work. That is NOT the commitment and "deep partnership" she describes as theirs or what she seems to want.
4. "Real talk. We are dating. There is something to be appreciated being apart. You know what I'm saying, I get to be apart from the person I absolutely adore."
--This is NOT how she described what she wanted on her podcast. How sad that she's telling herself it's okay that 4 months in, he wants that much space
5. She told him "we will never apologize for our hustle" when he dropped off communication with her

Tyler also commented on how in NYC she likes to stay in the center near Times Square and he wants to be in a hole in wall near theater district where he can walk out to a theater and run for a nap after.

I can't imagine they have ANY goals or relationship expectations in common. He's an only child manbaby. She is going to feel so stupid when this dies so publicly.

The way he speaks about her is so different for how she speaks of him.

Hopefully she learns the lesson many of us divorcees had to learn…don’t gush about your new relationship on social media because when it ends, it’s a lot of backpedaling and explaining to the people you were performing for. Is it their business? Our business? No. But when we put things out publicly for praise, the same public wants to hear why it failed, too. She can’t just continue posting like nothing happened after a whole year of gushing. People will start asking. Best to keep some things under your wide brimmed hat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tyler's podcast interview from April 2022: https://anchor.fm/letsgiveadamn/episodes/225---Tyler-Merritt-e1gnhjl

Skip to 1 hour min 1 mark where host asks Tyler if his decision to live in Nashville or NYC is dependent on his new relationship with Jen Hatmaker and Tyler says:

1. He emphasizes how new they are and that they have the income to be able to live apart and still see each other (e.g. NYC meet ups etc)
2. "You know how it is, being my age and Jen being someone who is divorced and older, with children, as soon as we got together people asked if we were marrying."
3. I live in Nashville and she's in Austin and we go and meet up in NYC and we make it work. That is NOT the commitment and "deep partnership" she describes as theirs or what she seems to want.
4. "Real talk. We are dating. There is something to be appreciated being apart. You know what I'm saying, I get to be apart from the person I absolutely adore."
--This is NOT how she described what she wanted on her podcast. How sad that she's telling herself it's okay that 4 months in, he wants that much space
5. She told him "we will never apologize for our hustle" when he dropped off communication with her

Tyler also commented on how in NYC she likes to stay in the center near Times Square and he wants to be in a hole in wall near theater district where he can walk out to a theater and run for a nap after.

I can't imagine they have ANY goals or relationship expectations in common. He's an only child manbaby. She is going to feel so stupid when this dies so publicly.

The way he speaks about her is so different for how she speaks of him.

Hopefully she learns the lesson many of us divorcees had to learn…don’t gush about your new relationship on social media because when it ends, it’s a lot of backpedaling and explaining to the people you were performing for. Is it their business? Our business? No. But when we put things out publicly for praise, the same public wants to hear why it failed, too. She can’t just continue posting like nothing happened after a whole year of gushing. People will start asking. Best to keep some things under your wide brimmed hat.

https://youtu.be/4bvwKqSNAgk

[Anonymous]

Tyler’s post. So. Thirsty.

Even if it’s true, he’s posting it for validation and affirmation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tyler’s post. So. Thirsty.

Even if it’s true, he’s posting it for validation and affirmation.

And…shocker (brace yourself)…he doesn’t mention Jen. He has zero to say about her. He mentions his mom. Has plenty to say about himself. And extra-plenty to say about dead people in tributes (such an odd specialty)…but, Jen who?!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/BVe8pHoBIVI/

3rd Place = Jen
2nd Place = Brandon
1st Place = Tina
Last Place = the kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where have her closest girlfriends been? I mean why did only her mom have to help with last minute gift-wrapping? Why were no besties mentioned at the ANC service where she spoke, or on any of her trips…none of the usual tag-along guests for fun excursions and dinners…and no girls night for Brandon-Barbie wedding weekend?! Seems strange.

Was their last post together the bikini pic vacation back in the spring?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Was their last post together the bikini pic vacation back in the spring?

No, they went to a concert together in the fall. If memory serves me correctly, Brandon and Tina were at the same concert.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tyler’s post. So. Thirsty.

Even if it’s true, he’s posting it for validation and affirmation.

Jen should be embarrassed at this point to be claiming affection for this guy. He’s obnoxious and over the top and fake. Not evvvenn sexy (so when she acts like she’s all hung up on his appeal: 🤮🤮🤮) and he is clearly.not.into.her.

Where are her people?!??