That’s who some of these people find sane because it helps excuse their own racism, classism and homophobia. |
Based on what my kids bring home/complain about, SEL lessons in elementary school are a mix of the same “free to be you and me” and “don’t be a jerk” stuff they’ve been teaching kids since the 70’s; in high school it’s mental health and study skills. Is the problem that they came up with a new grad-schooly name for it? |
Yeah, these lessons don’t seem problematic at all and they don’t take up academic time (at least in HS). |
What grades are your kids? How many hours per day (or week/month) do they have SEL lessons? What would be the appropriate # of hours in your opinion? Which part of SEL troubles you? https://www.doe.virginia.gov/programs-services/student-services/integrated-student-supports/social-emotional-learning-sel |
No, not advisory. Every on or two weeks, my elementary kids got SEL a lesson. It is on the weekly agenda sent to parents. It takes one session supposed to be Science/Social Study. Some kids are bored at SEL session. At one of my kids' class, SEL become a game of hiding your reading from the teacher. ![]() |
It triggering for the irrational parents who struggle with their own SEL issues. |
One of my neighbors put out an online "ad" for a young adult she didn't even know the name of or know anything about but just heard through the grapevine who had been "rejected by their parents" according to them and needed a place to stay because they felt unsafe. The person was transgender and had a history of mental instability and was an adult. Many people wrote in to say the person could stay with them for a week and how bad they felt for the person based on the one line alone that they felt rejected. Various groups in the town writing to condemn the parents and provide help. Random strangers the person didn't even know offering a room. The mentally unstable adult got on the thread to thank them for all their care thus increasing this person's victim mentality and probably furthering anger toward their parents. The person was an adult that if they didn't like their parent's living situation, they could just have thanked their parents for the time after school for providing a home and moved out of the house on their own like any other adult would. Likely the person was crossing a boundary set at home and that's why they felt "rejected" since it was very sudden but even if it was transgender related, the person was not a victim. They were an adult with their own choices. But because these people writing in felt they were "too rich" and needed to somehow identify with the "victimized" (to feel justified in their riches I guess) inserted themselves into the life of someone they didn't even know the name of to ridicule the parents who lived in the town who had cared for the child well into adulthood. They had no idea they were subconsciously doing this to help their own ego. No idea that their actions were going to help destabilize a relationship with the person's intimate family further while they could only offer a week of help and that they were victimizing someone they didn't even know in the slightest and condemning someone they didn't even know in the slightest. A few rational people gave links to organizations that could help in times of actual crisis rather than pile on the insanity and hopefully could provide a better regulated service. Knee jerk reactions like this example are also insanity and simply based on a label that this person is transgender and therefore automatically a victim. This stuff is happening all over in the schools. Schools thinking parents don't need to know how their child goes by as gender and name at school but yet are responsible for them is insanity. Labeling every mentally unstable person as a victim or a perpetrator depending on the action without a full picture is insanity. There is a lot of insanity going around. Most people don't know any of the politicians running well enough to know their motives or why they do the things they do. Many conservative people legitimately thought there was something wrong with the election. I think she attended the rally but didn't storm it. Maybe they feel differently now, or they don't and are still disillusioned. This is not the only disillusionment going around though. One of the current school board members got into a fight with cops refusing to cooperate and then posted about how she was a victim. Also, insanity. There is disillusionment on both sides about many different topics. |
The paragraph is a beautiful thing. |
\One of my neighbors put out an online "ad" for a young adult she didn't even know the name of or know anything about but just heard through the grapevine who had been "rejected by their parents" according to them and needed a place to stay because they felt unsafe. The person was transgender and had a history of mental instability and was an adult. Many people wrote in to say the person could stay with them for a week and how bad they felt for the person based on the one line alone that they felt rejected. Various groups in the town writing to condemn the parents and provide help. Random strangers the person didn't even know offering a room. The mentally unstable adult got on the thread to thank them for all their care thus increasing this person's victim mentality and probably furthering anger toward their parents. The person was an adult that if they didn't like their parent's living situation, they could just have thanked their parents for the time after school for providing a home and moved out of the house on their own like any other adult would. Likely the person was crossing a boundary set at home and that's why they felt "rejected" since it was very sudden but even if it was transgender related, the person was not a victim. They were an adult with their own choices.
Because these people writing in felt they were "too rich" and needed to somehow identify with the "victimized" (to feel justified in their riches I guess) inserted themselves into the life of someone they didn't even know the name of to ridicule the parents who lived in the town who had cared for the child well into adulthood. They had no idea they were subconsciously doing this to help their own ego. No idea that their actions were going to help destabilize a relationship with the person's intimate family further while they could only offer a week of help and that they were victimizing someone they didn't even know in the slightest and condemning someone they didn't even know in the slightest. A few rational people gave links to organizations that could help in times of actual crisis rather than pile on the insanity and hopefully could provide a better regulated service. Knee jerk reactions like this example are also insanity and simply based on a label that this person is transgender and therefore automatically a victim. This stuff is happening all over in the schools. Schools thinking parents don't need to know how their child goes by as gender and name at school but yet are responsible for them is insanity. Labeling every mentally unstable person as a victim or a perpetrator depending on the action without a full picture is insanity. There is a lot of insanity going around. Most people don't know any of the politicians running well enough to know their motives or why they do the things they do. Many conservative people legitimately thought there was something wrong with the election. I think she attended the rally but didn't storm it. Maybe they feel differently now, or they don't and are still disillusioned. This is not the only disillusionment going around though. One of the current school board members got into a fight with cops refusing to cooperate and then posted about how she was a victim. Also, insanity. There is disillusionment on both sides about many different topics. There you go. |
Opting out of the screener doesn’t exempt students from SEL content and principles because it is embedded in every single aspect of their experience at school, from the content on core subjects, on required electives, on assemblies, and to activities - including the facilities they use. If you want to get to the minutia of it, ask your children what happens at school: what they do; what they learn (and how); what surveys they are asked to take (with identity questions); etc. To give you an example, recently my child’s HS had a visitor deliver a self-empowering message to the school. I learned that some students chose to study at the library instead, while others attended the event, but couldn’t learn much because of the noise caused by those who chose to be disrespectful to the guest. Soon they’ll have the suicide prevention screener and activities, and now are adding lessons on gun safety. All of this while students are struggling to prepare themselves for the SAT tests and college applications. Because I assume your further inquiry to my original comment is honest, I will share this video with you. It is worth watching with your high school child to initiate (or enhance) a conversation about his/her school experience. This will provide you with particular answers to your question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hybqg81n-M |
There are some real nut jobs on here.
Rationalizing 1/6. Speculating about a troubled family, using it for internet fodder, and then complain about people speculating about this family and using it for internet fodder. Looks about how colleges are “cults”. You people actually live in Fairfax County? Very disturbing. |
I think there was a quote above about how what you say here is an actual projection of yourself. Take a look in the mirror. The schools are not doing well. There is no reason to repeat the same thing over again. |
I ain't reading all that. I'm happy for u tho. Or sorry that happened |
“The schools aren’t doing well so let’s turn to fascism” certainly is a take. |
Voting one republican onto a school board is not going to turn Fairfax County in Nazi Germany. Get a grip. |