Anyone get married at 23? Or around that age?
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Did you get married in your lower 20s? If so:
How old were you when you got married? How old was your spouse? How old are you now? Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? Do you regret marrying at that age? What did your family think about it? |
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DH here.
Did you get married in your lower 20s? If so: How old were you when you got married? 24 How old was your spouse? 25 How old are you now? 35 Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? Yes. Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? Yes, absolutely. Do you regret marrying at that age? Definitely not. What did your family think about it? I didn't get the impression that anyone thought it was out of the ordinary. My parents were married at 24 and 22 and still going strong, same for in-laws who were married at 22. To head off the probable stereotypes, I'll note that we have graduate degrees and a "1%" household income. |
Anonymous
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24
25 36 yes yes no they were fine with it |
Anonymous
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24
30 47 Yes Yes No No family issues |
Anonymous
They were supportive but I grew up in the midwest so it wasn't rare. |
Anonymous
| I was 24, my husband was 28. We are still married 7 years later though I feel like we got married too soon. My family didn't care but they tend to marry young anyway. His parent don't like me that much so they would probably feel the same way at any age. |
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How old were you when you got married? 21
How old was your spouse? 21 How old are you now? 48 Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? Yes. Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? Yes. Do you regret marrying at that age? No What did your family think about it? They were very supportive. |
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How old were you when you got married? 24
How old was your spouse? 26 How old are you now? 36 Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? Yes. Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? Yes. Do you regret marrying at that age? No. What did your family think about it? They were very happy for us and excited about our future together. |
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I got married at 26, but we have been exclusive with each other since we were 20&21.we knew within 3 months of being together that it was for life. This summer will be 17years. my family is not intrusive so I don't know if they approved or not. I get the feeling his family was not a big fan of me in the beginning.
I would do it all over again. I would say that we are happily married with an active sex life. We did not come to the relationship with baggage, we created our own baggage together. I think that it has been a pretty easy road for us. |
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i was 24
spounse was 25 Now 47 and 48 Yes, still married Yes, we had both graduated from law school and felt mature enough to marry no regrets. Allowed us to start our career together and be married for years before starting to have kids. Family was fine with it (my younger sister got married not long after and she is still married too). |
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| OP here. I'm so happy to see that everyone who responded is still with their spouse years later! Thanks to all who responded. |
Anonymous
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24 (would have been younger but we had to save for wedding)
24 35 Still married Yes Family was supportive. |
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How old were you when you got married? 24
How old was your spouse? 26 How old are you now? 35 Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? Yes. Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? Yes. Do you regret marrying at that age? No. What did your family think about it? Our families were supportive (we had been dating 5 years). Also agree with PPs who said it was nice to be married for years before thinking about/having kids. Since we're collecting stories, my friend had a bit of a shotgun wedding... How old were you when you got married? She was 22 How old was your spouse? He was 25 How old are you now? She is 37 Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? No. Marriage lasted 4 years. Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? He definitely wasn't. I think my friend was (she was very mature/responsible even as a college student), but obv. I may be biased. Do you regret marrying at that age? No, but she regrets marrying that guy. What did your family think about it? Her family was supportive. His family thought she wasn't "good enough" for their son and treated her like crap. |
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Wife here
How old were you when you got married? 24 How old was your spouse? 30 How old are you now? 42 Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? Yes Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? Yes Do you regret marrying at that age? No What did your family think about it? Most of my older family married around 18. Family my age were fine with it. |
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How old were you when you got married? -24 How old was your spouse? -25 How old are you now? -27, pregnant with first baby Are you still married? If not, how long were you married? -Yes, three years in March Do you feel you were mature enough for marriage at that age? -Yes, I got married my last semester of law school, and was a lawyer by 25. He already had his masters, and had been working for two years. Do you regret marrying at that age? -No, it's very common in the south. What did your family think about it? -See above. |