Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

Clearly their or Tylermerritproject’s pseudo relationship contract is up. Done and dusted.

[Anonymous]

Jen some of the worst lies in our life are the lies we tell
ourselves.

[Anonymous]

Man, I hope this is over with Tyler so Jen can get on with her life and finding a partner who truly loves her.

Methinks she will spin this breakup as loving too much and having a tender heart. Do these influencers ever cop to a mistake or own up to their own contribution to problems? Do they ever apologize for anything? Like a straight, no chaser, I was wrong and I am sorry and I won't do that again apology?

It is so sad to see Brandon move on so quickly and permanently when he was the one who detonated the whole thing. I've seen enough of Tina's boobs in his IG to last a lifetime.

[Anonymous]

So basically "thanks for taking my calls"

I say that to customer service reps.

That's really sad. I think Jen will be glad to see this year in the rearview mirror.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like the sigh we realize we need to move on but I’m so glad we had this time together breakup. Which was probably pre-arranged between the two of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So basically "thanks for taking my calls"

I say that to customer service reps.

That's really sad. I think Jen will be glad to see this year in the rearview mirror. [/quote

Ha! My narcissistic mom thanks me for my phone call right before we hang up.
“And thanks for your call.”

[Anonymous]

Every beautiful romance is encapsulated with the words “Thanks for taking my calls”. Someone should contact Hallmark.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man, I hope this is over with Tyler so Jen can get on with her life and finding a partner who truly loves her.

Methinks she will spin this breakup as loving too much and having a tender heart. Do these influencers ever cop to a mistake or own up to their own contribution to problems? Do they ever apologize for anything? Like a straight, no chaser, I was wrong and I am sorry and I won't do that again apology?

It is so sad to see Brandon move on so quickly and permanently when he was the one who detonated the whole thing. I've seen enough of Tina's boobs in his IG to last a lifetime.

Are you saying Jen needs to apologize and not do that again if she and Tyler break up?

[Anonymous]

Jen should apologize for trying to sell a fake rebound relationship as her meeting the great love of the rest of her life; trying to sell half a minute of therapy as enough to get over the betrayal of having a spouse of 26 years cheat on you. How many times did we hear her say that “she did the work”. Puhhhhleeeaaze.


Funny actually how Brandon had the same narrative of “doing the work” after spending half a minute in rehab. At least he found a believable love story even if it is trashy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jen should apologize for trying to sell a fake rebound relationship as her meeting the great love of the rest of her life; trying to sell half a minute of therapy as enough to get over the betrayal of having a spouse of 26 years cheat on you. How many times did we hear her say that “she did the work”. Puhhhhleeeaaze.


Funny actually how Brandon had the same narrative of “doing the work” after spending half a minute in rehab. At least he found a believable love story even if it is trashy.

What sort of person on the rebound from a 26 year marriage does a few months of therapy then immediately looks to monetize it?? Who are these people?

[Anonymous]

Stop taking this woman’s trauma personally. Rebound relationships are ubiquitous. Jen is in lots of great company, probably some of her critics here even. It’s just that most people don’t have to process their breakups, trauma, and rebounds so publicly. The only way she’s profiting off of sharing this relationship is if willing participants support it. She’s annoying, but she’s no cult leader. Anyone supporting her is doing so willingly. Jen deconstructed at a time when life T’s of American women were deconstructing. Her common experience keeps her relevant. She’s not leading the pack, she’s just a voice for many who are having parallel experiences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Man, I hope this is over with Tyler so Jen can get on with her life and finding a partner who truly loves her.

Methinks she will spin this breakup as loving too much and having a tender heart. Do these influencers ever cop to a mistake or own up to their own contribution to problems? Do they ever apologize for anything? Like a straight, no chaser, I was wrong and I am sorry and I won't do that again apology?

It is so sad to see Brandon move on so quickly and permanently when he was the one who detonated the whole thing. I've seen enough of Tina's boobs in his IG to last a lifetime.


Are you saying Jen needs to apologize and not do that again if she and Tyler break up?

PP here- I dumbly did not split up the sentence/thought cleanly. I meant to express (clumsily) that these influencer wannabes never apologize or call something a mistake. They spin any and everything into a yarn of self-discovery and improvement. They are never in the wrong or make a misstep. I was just saying that I could see Jen spinning this not-great relationship into a humblebrag of her loving too much.

[Anonymous]

Stop taking this woman’s trauma personally.

Jen doesn't appear to think she is experiencing anything common.

No one here takes her trauma personally. It's just a forum to discuss something in real time that is practically banned from other platforms.

[Anonymous]

As ridiculous as the whole relationship charade has been, the worst part IMO is the cookbook dedication. Her PR person is a jerk for encouraging it. Tyler himself should have stopped it if he has any decency. He certainly wasn’t dedicating his books to her simultaneously. And where were her friends and family and assistant and editor on that one?!! Uggh. Her first huge post-divorce project, one she had been dreaming about and working toward for years…and his name is stamped on there forever. Undeserving, even if he is complicit in the rest of the mess. To me, it’s the most embarrassing part of their whirlwind pretend romance. The rest of the dates and photos and podcasts and innuendos will fade into oblivion in 2023, but his name is centrally located in her cookbook dedication forever.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Agree. It was such an over the top dedication implying forever love. What were they thinking? She could’ve made an ig post dedicating to him that could’ve been deleted later or at least it’s just online and not published making her a fool

It was just too much that should have made everyone, even her children, uncomfortable. I wonder if part of her was thinking that she could push things faster if she made them so permanent and public.