Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:52yo man here. Yes, though I confess I am more attracted to the 35-45yo set. So shoot me.


Nobody cares. The majority of those women find you creepy


Yet for some reason women care a lot when an older guy dates a younger woman, lmao.
Anonymous
No.
Would prefer women in their 20s or 30s. Even if I financially support them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No.
Would prefer women in their 20s or 30s. Even if I financially support them.


This. Most men don’t get to make these choices when over 50. But a small percentage of elite men have, frankly, earned the right to date hot younger women. If they are highly successful professionally, can mentor younger women to their own success, and have maintained their fitness and silver foxhood then they can choose anyone from 18 on up.

That’s just the dating market at work. But if you’re going to go for a man like this, you better step up to the plate as you’re playing in the majors. Usually they are on a second marriage and have had multiple APs because of all the things that attract 22-year-old you. In a few years a younger hottie will come along, and you better make sure you enhance him so that he doesn’t go looking. Look at how hard Lauren Sanchez works to keep Bezos focused on her alone. She doesn’t take ANYTHING for granted, and her efforts have paid off handsomely.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No.
Would prefer women in their 20s or 30s. Even if I financially support them.


What happens when they hit 40 then? You put them out to pasture? Furthermore, if these younger women are hoping to have children one day and you aren’t, you are wasting their best years, which is cruel and selfish (unless you are honest with them that you are using them for their youth from the start).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, Yes, Yes!!!!! I'm the 50yo who just wrote about this in the Fifty is old thread. If you were attractive in your 20's and even took care of yourself just a little bit over the years (no need to be perfect, that's boring) I bet you are super hot in your 50's - at least to me. So ladies, please know that there are guys still lusting after you in your 50's, you hotties!


You know how we have those embarrassing threads about “high value men”? This pp is not one of them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No.
Would prefer women in their 20s or 30s. Even if I financially support them.


This. Most men don’t get to make these choices when over 50. But a small percentage of elite men have, frankly, earned the right to date hot younger women. If they are highly successful professionally, can mentor younger women to their own success, and have maintained their fitness and silver foxhood then they can choose anyone from 18 on up.

That’s just the dating market at work. But if you’re going to go for a man like this, you better step up to the plate as you’re playing in the majors. Usually they are on a second marriage and have had multiple APs because of all the things that attract 22-year-old you. In a few years a younger hottie will come along, and you better make sure you enhance him so that he doesn’t go looking. Look at how hard Lauren Sanchez works to keep Bezos focused on her alone. She doesn’t take ANYTHING for granted, and her efforts have paid off handsomely.


To all the would-be young gold diggers out there, take note. You want to be used and discarded like this? Father Time is coming for you, too, and you cannot win against the one who never lost before. Then it’s good bye sugar daddy..
Anonymous
Well, I’m a 49-year old woman, and I find most men 50+ to be repulsive. So it goes both ways. Probably better that these old geezers want younger women, because most older women I know are done with them and want to be left the hell alone anyway!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well, I’m a 49-year old woman, and I find most men 50+ to be repulsive. So it goes both ways. Probably better that these old geezers want younger women, because most older women I know are done with them and want to be left the hell alone anyway!


Let me clue you in, sweetie. Men DGAF about what women think about them. Women live and die about what men think of them. When they hit 40 its spoiled milk. You lost all power in the relationship. We all see it killing you on the inside.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well, I’m a 49-year old woman, and I find most men 50+ to be repulsive. So it goes both ways. Probably better that these old geezers want younger women, because most older women I know are done with them and want to be left the hell alone anyway!

I'm 53, and find most 55+ year old men physically not attractive.

I love my DH, of course, but his body is showing it (almost 60).

To be honest, if he was a total stranger, I would not find his body attractive. He's not overweight, but the moobs and big gut just aren't attractive, man or woman.

Young women who go after older men who look like DJT are attracted to the money and power. That's it. Basically, they are prostituting themselves. The thought of having to have sex with someone who looks like DJT (or any old man with a big gut) without any feelings of love for the person, not the money, is really gross, even for a 50 year old woman.

Young men certainly feel the same way about older women, and that's fine.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well, I’m a 49-year old woman, and I find most men 50+ to be repulsive. So it goes both ways. Probably better that these old geezers want younger women, because most older women I know are done with them and want to be left the hell alone anyway!


Let me clue you in, sweetie. Men DGAF about what women think about them. Women live and die about what men think of them. When they hit 40 its spoiled milk. You lost all power in the relationship. We all see it killing you on the inside.

LOL. I guess she hit a nerve.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well, I’m a 49-year old woman, and I find most men 50+ to be repulsive. So it goes both ways. Probably better that these old geezers want younger women, because most older women I know are done with them and want to be left the hell alone anyway!


Let me clue you in, sweetie. Men DGAF about what women think about them. Women live and die about what men think of them. When they hit 40 its spoiled milk. You lost all power in the relationship. We all see it killing you on the inside.


Not all older women.

Youd be so surprised....
Anonymous
I am 48 and recently divorced. There is this really beautiful lady with an amazing ass and beautiful face (she went under the knife but who cares) who looks to be in her 50s. I can't tell whether she is single but I will try to get to know her and hopefully she is single cause she is hot. She did smile at me a couple of times but I'm sure she was just being nice lol. I know I sound like a teen but this beautiful lady is making act like one cause she is very beautiful.

And women in their 50s have something that most men in their 50s or even 40s which they had sex drive. Men peak early sexually whereas women are still horny and wet well into their 50s so for a guy thats a plus if he can keep up lol
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:52yo man here. Yes, though I confess I am more attracted to the 35-45yo set. So shoot me.


Nobody cares. The majority of those women find you creepy


Yet for some reason women care a lot when an older guy dates a younger woman, lmao.


Because it's grooming. Do you want your dd 22 dd to date a 57 year old man?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No.
Would prefer women in their 20s or 30s. Even if I financially support them.


Your preference doesn't line up with most 20 or 30 year olds.

Creepy old man
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are we talking white women or all women?



Does that make a difference?


Renee Ellis Goldsbury is what, 53? I’m a woman but I would date her. Moreover I see black women out and about everyday who look that good and are around her age. I don’t see white women as well preserved as Gillin Anderson in everyday life.


Agree that white women tend to age less well than women of other ethnicities.


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