Sleeping in separate beds

[Anonymous]

Is it normal to cuddle through the night? I can't sleep if I'm touching my partner. My wife days she wishes she had never married me to this reason.

Do most people cuddle whole they are sleeping?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, we have been sleeping in separate beds for 10 years since the second was born and my wife decided to co-sleep. I am used to my own bed now.

Our sex life sucks, once a month on average. I am sure we would have more if we slept in the same bed it would be like 2x a month and I would be way more frustrated since at least I have privacy in the guest room

Bottom line, the lack of sex isn't because of separate bed rooms but that doesn't help.

So why do you allow your marriage to go on like this?

Kids, finances.

[Anonymous]

The reason my husband and I are happily married (20 years) is because we sleep in separate rooms. He snores and I'm a light sleeper. With separate bedrooms, I sleep great. If I'm up all night, and constantly exhausted, that does not make for a good marriage.

[Anonymous]

We sleep in separate rooms because my husband is a loud snorer and flip flops all night due to pain in his hips. I’d wake up a jack$ss if it wasn’t for this arrangement. So it’s working for us!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trump and melania sleep in separate beds

Frequently on Stormy nights.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, we have been sleeping in separate beds for 10 years since the second was born and my wife decided to co-sleep. I am used to my own bed now.

Our sex life sucks, once a month on average. I am sure we would have more if we slept in the same bed it would be like 2x a month and I would be way more frustrated since at least I have privacy in the guest room

Bottom line, the lack of sex isn't because of separate bed rooms but that doesn't help.

So why do you allow your marriage to go on like this?

DH here. Once a month would be an improvement. Going rate is about semi-annually after 37 years... at least for me. Not sure about the wife?