This has always been the case. Always. There are some parents who need to send their child to school because they have inflexible work schedules, their income is desperately needed and they may be fired if they take a day or two every time their child is sick. Single parents (mostly mothers) are in an especially tight spot but dual-income marrieds can be in the same postion. They are unlikely to risk unemployment and homelessness on the .00000000001% chance that their child's cold germs may float to the next cafeteria table and put a medically fragile child in the hospital. Not everyone has a stay at home mom or high income parents that can leave a symptomatic child home with a nanny. |
And for every one of those, there are also those whose kid "cant miss one day of school because they will get too behind" and "if I kept Larla home for every cold she would never be in school." |
I get that it is tough but at the same time no one should be sending sick kids into school, whether flu or covid. Because now instead of one family being impacted it is the many. So now we have more single moms/dads who cannot take off work who might be forced to do it because once again someone was thinking of themselves. I am sorry, I might not be a single mom but I am a military mom who works and husband was deployed often. I had a job that required me to go in as well and taking time off all the time was NOT an option. So I had to make arrangements with neighbors who were retired, pay people, and at one point beg out of town in laws to come in and help. It is insane that you discount the economic loss to EVERYONE because a few people cannot make arrangements. There were weeks that I had to pay more in childcare for sick kids than what we made - not everyone on here is rich, stay at home, or have nannies. BUT, we do the right thing. |
Viruses existed before this one. People's grannies died before this one from exposure to a cold/flu that they got from a fellow grocery shopper who got it from her husband who got it from his co-worker who got it from his kid who got it from the kid sitting next to him at storytime. As for people not having connections for sick kids, I suppose we can petition the government to provide childcare for parents who could not or would not build the social capital that is a vital part of life. It's easy to "do the right thing" when you have the money to pay people (some people don't even have the wherewithal to "lose money" on paper for childcare or anything else) or the skills and inclination to build multiple relationships on trust and mutual exchange. Check your privilege. |
My people! |