Your links show how much the well-spoken magnet student (likely due to her instruction at Eastern) has benefitted from her years at Blair. She can see through the wall of privilege that most MC and UMC kids cannot and speaks eloquently about the SES divisions in that school and our society. That's on top of the top notch education she's receiving at Blair magnet. I wish more of our leaders had such experience to draw from. |
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I know we've moved on, but I wanted to talk about the sports vs. academics question.
The difference between the two comes down to why sports teams exist vs. why magnet programs exist. Sports teams exist to win games. For that reason, it makes sense to assemble a team made up of the best prepared players, regardless of whether they are relying on natural talent, or expensive private coaching, or both. The point of a public school magnet program is not to "win games." It is to nurture talent. That's actually a fundamentally different goal. If you are looking for raw talent, particularly raw talent that might otherwise be missed, then extensive coaching not only undermines the endeavor, but is something the district should rigorously try to guard against. The point is the uncover kids who might otherwise not see their talent realized, and to help them grow into their potential. |
what's to say that kids who get tutored aren't having their "natural" talent cultivated, but just outside of school? My kid has natural musical talent. Should I only just rely on the school to cultivate the kid's musical ability? Is it unfair that the 1st chair in the school orchestra also gets a lot of outside private music instruction? How will a kid who has natural talent but doesn't get outside tutoring ever be 1st chair with this unfair competition? |
Not kid sports. Or, maybe they do, but there's no reason why they would have to, other than that people want it to be that way. The competition model is as inappropriate for kid sports as it is for kid education. |
Yes, of course it is. Public school systems used to provide music instruction beyond just the rudiments in elementary school. In fact, public school systems used to provide the area youth orchestras, whereas now you have to pay MCYO lots of money for them to tell you how selective and elite they are. |
I think the point is that your kid with natural talent + tutoring is going to present differently than a kid with the exact same amount of natural talent and no tutoring. Since the goal is to find all of the kids with that kind of talent, I think we should all be supportive of efforts by MCPS to identify kids from the second group, even if they don't "walk onto the field" with the same skills as the kid lucky enough to have been receiving outside support. |
Is that the reason why y'all fighting so hard to get your kids into Blair? I can smell envy and jealousy coming from you. Your kids didn't get in. |
^^ This, all the way. It's not based upon natural ability. There are a lot of people especially in specific ethnic communities that spend tons on tutors and then act like their kids are just naturally smarter than everyone else. Far from the truth. |
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My kid in this "specific ethnic communities" is not smarter than anyone else, and he is most at average.
However, his work ethic is at the top ! He has never been in any class outside MCPS, and he has a a lot free tutors from the internet, they are free and accessible to anyone. Before Covid, his summers were all about volunteer work, this summer he started to work as a lifeguard working over 40 hours a week ! He is a straight A student at Blair Magnet. |
Those "ethnic parents" don't hide the fact that their kids go to after school tutoring. They openly discuss it. They don't tout being "naturally smart". They tout "working hard". You are very judgey. Maybe you should have your kids work harder. FWIW, my kids have ever gone to an after school tutor. |
My kid at RMIB has never had a tutor other than Khan Academy free online. I wish I could say DS has spent 40 hours per week working, but alas, he's spent a lot of time playing on his computer, with some other activities thrown in here and there. |
Congratulations. Success over time comes from a hard work ethic. The single most important factor. Wish I had the same work ethic as your kid. I was considered above average when I was a kid. Things came easy to me. I was top of class and all that without much effort in high school. The hardworking kids just did so much better than me over time...took me a while to figure out I was not just unlucky. People who make fun of hard working kids are just trying to hide their own insecurities. |
| My kid who is at Poolesville SMACS program never had a tutor, is organized but does not study a ton, never had a B, and only takes Khan Academy free online classes because of being bored. She completed her own application, aced the test on her own, and wrote her entrance essays. I think she is truly gifted as she experiments with creating new algebraic equations and finds trends in parabola plottings and their equations. The kids who learn to a test get weeded out and eliminated pretty quickly. The kids that stay really thrive and want to be there and are naturally very bright. |
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Remarkably, everyone who responds to this has a straight A student with a natural work ethic who gets straight A's at a magnet program, and it's nothing they did, their children are just superior. Don't believe me? You don't have to ask them, they will tell you again.
I have a bright, lazy kid who squeaked into a magnet program off the wait list and has straight... B's. With the occasional A and C. You probably think my kid is just there to make yours look good. I don't care, I just want them to have classes that are hard and engaging. It has occurred to me more than once, watching my kid and others like them, that engaging underachievers is not easy. I wonder how many other kids didn't make the cut but would enjoy the challenge. |
Well, they are responding to posters stereotyping the kids who get admitted to this program. And, I don't see anyone claiming that every student who gets admitted will get all As, etc. If these posts touched a raw nerve, that is on you. For what it is worth, I have a DC in a magnet; doing pretty OK, but not all straight As, but wouldn't dream of leaving the magnet. In his circle, most kids seem to be doing fine, but only a couple get straight As. (The problem in this case seems to be not taking humanities seriously and they end up with Bs.) But they definitely enjoy the program ... |