Y or N? Okay to fantasize about having sex with your crush,l?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If it's bad, I don't really think I want to be good. I've been non-stop fantasizing about having sex with him. Though he is not single, I am single though so I feel it's okay. It's just imagination.




do you not care about his wife?


It's her imagination? What is wrong with the people on here?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If it's bad, I don't really think I want to be good. I've been non-stop fantasizing about having sex with him. Though he is not single, I am single though so I feel it's okay. It's just imagination.




do you not care about his wife?



No, she's not part of the fantasies
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If it's bad, I don't really think I want to be good. I've been non-stop fantasizing about having sex with him. Though he is not single, I am single though so I feel it's okay. It's just imagination.




do you not care about his wife?


It's her imagination? What is wrong with the people on here?



It's no big deal. Different people are comfortable with different things. Some people are uncomfortable with fantasies. Some are only okay with it in certain bounds. There's room for both imo.
Anonymous
It’s a fantasy. By definition, not real. What’s the worry exactly? Most people will do a lot in imagination that they won’t do in reality.
Anonymous
Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ummmm ... yes, that is why it is called fantasizing!!


exactly. although i only do this with one man I know (I'm a woman) but I suspect men do it all the time with all sorts of women. but i dare not ask my husband so don't know.


I actually don’t think I WANT to know who my DH fantasizes about.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.



Even though your wife knows nothing about it to me this crosses a line. A fantasy about a random, an ex gf is different than your wife's BFF. I hope you at least have the decency not to stare at her curves.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.


Can you post some pics?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.



Even though your wife knows nothing about it to me this crosses a line. A fantasy about a random, an ex gf is different than your wife's BFF. I hope you at least have the decency not to stare at her curves.


you know he does
Anonymous
I do all of the time. No interest in cheating for real
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.



Even though your wife knows nothing about it to me this crosses a line. A fantasy about a random, an ex gf is different than your wife's BFF. I hope you at least have the decency not to stare at her curves.


I dont stare. She is a nice friend to me as well. I do notice her. Especially once 4 of our families rented a beach house and I got to see in a very pretty bikini. Etched on my eyes. I can recall every single detail of her on the beach like the back of my hand.

I did fantasize about my MIL as well way early in our relationship when she was still really hot.

This is just a fantasy. Never every would remotely even think of acting on any of those. It makes life so exciting. And utterly harmless to everyone involved.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.



Even though your wife knows nothing about it to me this crosses a line. A fantasy about a random, an ex gf is different than your wife's BFF. I hope you at least have the decency not to stare at her curves.


I dont stare. She is a nice friend to me as well. I do notice her. Especially once 4 of our families rented a beach house and I got to see in a very pretty bikini. Etched on my eyes. I can recall every single detail of her on the beach like the back of my hand.

I did fantasize about my MIL as well way early in our relationship when she was still really hot.

This is just a fantasy. Never every would remotely even think of acting on any of those. It makes life so exciting. And utterly harmless to everyone involved.


Dude wtf?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Come on. 50% of the time that I have sex with DW I fantasize about her best friend, who is just so curvy perfect.



Even though your wife knows nothing about it to me this crosses a line. A fantasy about a random, an ex gf is different than your wife's BFF. I hope you at least have the decency not to stare at her curves.


I dont stare. She is a nice friend to me as well. I do notice her. Especially once 4 of our families rented a beach house and I got to see in a very pretty bikini. Etched on my eyes. I can recall every single detail of her on the beach like the back of my hand.

I did fantasize about my MIL as well way early in our relationship when she was still really hot.

This is just a fantasy. Never every would remotely even think of acting on any of those. It makes life so exciting. And utterly harmless to everyone involved.


Dude wtf?



Ewwwwwwww
Anonymous
You fantasize about people who you have contact with the most and who are hot. It would most likely be your wife's friends, wife's sisters, MIL, or friends wives.

Any hot woman that I come into contact with it is safe to assume she chalked up a tick mark in my mind at least once in the shower. In fact, that is primarily how I rate women. The number of times I can tick mark a woman in a single 24 hour period. Above 3 would have to be hot as hell.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You fantasize about people who you have contact with the most and who are hot. It would most likely be your wife's friends, wife's sisters, MIL, or friends wives.

Any hot woman that I come into contact with it is safe to assume she chalked up a tick mark in my mind at least once in the shower. In fact, that is primarily how I rate women. The number of times I can tick mark a woman in a single 24 hour period. Above 3 would have to be hot as hell.



This thread is about crushes and thinking about having sex with them. I'm fairly open minded when it comes to sexual matters bit a crush and regular sex fantasies about your MOL is pretty weird I'm my book
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