Family vacation planned with ILs and they aren’t vaxxed

[Anonymous]

the grandparents said they understood our concerns and would cancel the trip if we wanted

You have your answer. Or be gut-less

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

the grandparents said they understood our concerns and would cancel the trip if we wanted

You have your answer. Or be gut-less

Just send your dh, no need to cancel the trip.

[Anonymous]

I would go and hope they get covid. Would likely also have my kid avoid them as much as possible.

[Anonymous]

Send DH, you and DC stay home - this would be a non-issue for me, no way in hell would I compromise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Planned a trip at end of July with the ILs and I asked DH if they were all vaxxed… and just found out that two teens and 1 adult are not. All are in red states and the adult and 1 teen are MAGA nuts. I have a younger kid not eligible. I am pissed. I guess I have to make my kid wear a mask at all times with them right? (We are renting apartments in CO at a resort.) It’s a celebration trip for the grandparents and I know DH won’t pull out. Suggestions? Ideas?

are you and your family vaccinated? then what's the issue here. what's the point of getting vaccinated....

OP here… yes, I said that. 3 of the 4 of us are vaxxed. The 4th is not eligible, and has very mild asthma.

I am thinking of pulling out and just sending DH. I get that there is exposure in airports, planes, etc. but now I would have to have my kid in a mask at all times with the family. Two of them are in a state where the Delta variant is rampant.

It is absolutely fine to send your husband and you stay home with the kids or unvaccinated kid. It is probably easier than going and having to explain over and over why one kid is wearing a mask.

[Anonymous]

You also could plan a different visit or trip with your in laws if your husband decides not to go. My DH would not want to spend two weeks at a resort with his parents and siblings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i honestly would not go. Let your DH go without you. I would die on this hill.

My sil and bill aren't vaxxed. I won't be seeing them this holiday season.

This.

[Anonymous]

So you planned a trip with family and some or all of them are trump anti-vaxers? You have a kid who is unvaccinated and you waited until now to ask your dh about this? And your ILs are okay with cancelling the trip if you are uncomfortable? And your pissed?

Unless you were tricked into thinking these people were vaccinated I don’t know why your mad at anybody but yourself for not clarifying this in the first place. 💁‍♀️