Be honest - how many of you would use Apple's new AirTags to see if your spouse or s/o is cheating?

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Anonymous wrote:If I ever got to the point that I thought DH was cheating on me and then felt the need to spy on him, I would just divorce instead. Even if he wasn't cheating, obviously there are major major issues in our marriage for me to get to that point.

Yup. Don't understand all the people who don't trust their spouses not to cheat, yet want to stay with them.

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Maybe some of us just have a more suspicious personality? If my husband does to a work dinner or meets a friend for lunch, I definitely pop on and see if his phone is the place he said he would be. This obviously doesn’t tell me who he is with there.

Honestly, I would divorce you for this. I remember my husband once used “find my” to track me coming home from work and it freaked me out. I immediately shut it off. I have no intention of cheating, but I don’t like being tracked. And yes, I know there are tons of easy ways to track ppl so if he wanted to, he could track me, but I just don’t like it. If my spouse can’t trust that I am where I say I am and will be there when I say I’ll be there, we’re not in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

I have nothing to hide so I could care less if my spouse or kids use it to see where I am. I use it when I’ve told my kids to be home at a certain time for dinner to see how far away they are...and I used to use it for my spouse when he said he was leaving work to pick up kids but hadn’t actually left yet.

I really think it’s people do nefarious things that are so concerned about tracking.

I’ve been with my spouse 25 years there really is little mystery left to be so guarded is weird and suspicious. It reeks of gaslighting.

[Anonymous]

Why would you use "Find my phone" when you could simply call and ask where your spouse is?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have nothing to hide so I could care less if my spouse or kids use it to see where I am. I use it when I’ve told my kids to be home at a certain time for dinner to see how far away they are...and I used to use it for my spouse when he said he was leaving work to pick up kids but hadn’t actually left yet.

I really think it’s people do nefarious things that are so concerned about tracking.

I’ve been with my spouse 25 years there really is little mystery left to be so guarded is weird and suspicious. It reeks of gaslighting.

I agree with this. I have zero to hide. Look at my emails, phone, track me, etc.

Now, if a man or woman constantly is searching their partner’s phone, email, obsessively showing up at their job, installing cameras without knowledge of the partner- I’d reevaluate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would you use "Find my phone" when you could simply call and ask where your spouse is?

It’s when kids or husband say they have left or be there in 5 min and dinner is getting cold and I see they haven’t even started their way home yet. For young teens/tweens it’s a safety thing.