Be honest - how many of you would use Apple's new AirTags to see if your spouse or s/o is cheating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yeah. Nothing like blaming the nestcam you’re fully aware of as “privacy invasion” during your lunchtime shag w your AP. Deflect much?

But if the spouse isn't cheating, then you are just spying, which is gross and an invasion of privacy. How is this even a question?

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How is it different than a tile?

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Anonymous wrote:If I ever got to the point that I thought DH was cheating on me and then felt the need to spy on him, I would just divorce instead. Even if he wasn't cheating, obviously there are major major issues in our marriage for me to get to that point.

Yup. Don't understand all the people who don't trust their spouses not to cheat, yet want to stay with them.

+1

Maybe some of us just have a more suspicious personality? If my husband does to a work dinner or meets a friend for lunch, I definitely pop on and see if his phone is the place he said he would be. This obviously doesn’t tell me who he is with there.

[Anonymous]

The most dcum thing ever is to use these little stalky things but only if they’re Apple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found out my ex was cheating through find my phone, but it was a blessing as the relationship was long over and it just made it easier for us to discuss it. I never would have thought of it before then and it certainly doesn’t occur to me to do it with my current significant other, as I know he isn’t cheating, and I knew my ex wasn’t prior to then. If you feel the need to do this, that urge is the indicator, not the actual result. Sorry, your relationship is over.

I had zero suspicion, good marriage and lots of sex...and the way they covered their tracks it would be hard for the CIA to find out. They didn't even use phones...and since they knew how to hack iphone locator--they could do the same with air tags. When you are married to someone in IT, just don't even bother. They will always be 10 steps ahead.

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Anonymous wrote:If I ever got to the point that I thought DH was cheating on me and then felt the need to spy on him, I would just divorce instead. Even if he wasn't cheating, obviously there are major major issues in our marriage for me to get to that point.

Yup. Don't understand all the people who don't trust their spouses not to cheat, yet want to stay with them.

+1

Maybe some of us just have a more suspicious personality? If my husband does to a work dinner or meets a friend for lunch, I definitely pop on and see if his phone is the place he said he would be. This obviously doesn’t tell me who he is with there.

OR IF HE IS THERE. Cheaters know how to set the location on the iphone tracker to be in one place on laptop...and actually be in a different place. They can even login and show movement.

I had a false sense of security using tracker like that when I would see if how far he was from home to start dinner or if he needed to take a kid somewhere. He was always coming from a location that he actually wasn't at.

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Anonymous wrote:We already both track each other with "Find My" on our phones. It's super handy to know when they will arrive for getting meals ready or to make sure a schedule change is remembered (so DH DID leave to pickup Larla, I see his dot moving). I guess unlike a Tag they can turn it off, but the principle of tracking is kind of there anyways.

I mean, my DH can't remember his iCloud password, that falls to me, so I know where his phone is regardless.

Our whole family uses “Find My”

If my spouse suddenly turned his off, yes I’d be suspicious.

So does my family...which is why spouse never turned it off---just googled how to hack it to show he was elsewhere. Very easy to do.

[Anonymous]

If your spouse was cheating I would imagine they wouldn't be dumb enough to use air tags, unless of course they want you to know = exit affair. This isn't a sneak way to catch a spouse cheating. If you find out this way it's because they want you to know, and you need to contact an attorney ASAP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If I ever got to the point that I thought DH was cheating on me and then felt the need to spy on him, I would just divorce instead. Even if he wasn't cheating, obviously there are major major issues in our marriage for me to get to that point.

Yup. Don't understand all the people who don't trust their spouses not to cheat, yet want to stay with them.

+1

Maybe some of us just have a more suspicious personality? If my husband does to a work dinner or meets a friend for lunch, I definitely pop on and see if his phone is the place he said he would be. This obviously doesn’t tell me who he is with there.

That’s a really unappealing character flaw. You should work on ridding yourself of it, not trumpeting it proudly to the internet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Abuse via tech is a thing now. If you’re using things like this to track your spouse or a Nest cam etc to see who enters your house, it can be abusive to your spouse.

Everyone deserves privacy.

Privacy and secrets are two different things. Privacy is alone bathroom time; a secret is banging *insert whatever ppl bang here* and exposing your spouse to an open marriage and STDs/STIs w/o their consent.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If I ever got to the point that I thought DH was cheating on me and then felt the need to spy on him, I would just divorce instead. Even if he wasn't cheating, obviously there are major major issues in our marriage for me to get to that point.

Yup. Don't understand all the people who don't trust their spouses not to cheat, yet want to stay with them.

+1

Maybe some of us just have a more suspicious personality? If my husband does to a work dinner or meets a friend for lunch, I definitely pop on and see if his phone is the place he said he would be. This obviously doesn’t tell me who he is with there.

Wow. Just, wow.

[Anonymous]

If it's to the point of tracking him based on suspicion of cheating, just lawyer up and prepare to divorce him. The man wants to act single, let him be single.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Abuse via tech is a thing now. If you’re using things like this to track your spouse or a Nest cam etc to see who enters your house, it can be abusive to your spouse.

Everyone deserves privacy.

Privacy and secrets are two different things. Privacy is alone bathroom time; a secret is banging *insert whatever ppl bang here* and exposing your spouse to an open marriage and STDs/STIs w/o their consent.

+100

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abuse via tech is a thing now. If you’re using things like this to track your spouse or a Nest cam etc to see who enters your house, it can be abusive to your spouse.

Everyone deserves privacy.

Privacy and secrets are two different things. Privacy is alone bathroom time; a secret is banging *insert whatever ppl bang here* and exposing your spouse to an open marriage and STDs/STIs w/o their consent.

+100

Agree. How is not abusive for my wife to let her AP into our house to bang a few times a month without my knowledge - but if I have a Ring or Nest camera for security- I’m abusive somehow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abuse via tech is a thing now. If you’re using things like this to track your spouse or a Nest cam etc to see who enters your house, it can be abusive to your spouse.

Everyone deserves privacy.

Privacy and secrets are two different things. Privacy is alone bathroom time; a secret is banging *insert whatever ppl bang here* and exposing your spouse to an open marriage and STDs/STIs w/o their consent.

+100

Agree. How is not abusive for my wife to let her AP into our house to bang a few times a month without my knowledge - but if I have a Ring or Nest camera for security- I’m abusive somehow.

It’s called gas-lighting. Cheaters are all about “privacy”. Faux outrage when anyone questions anything.