Husband Losing Interest In Me?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You are over thinking this. We are all living in boring bubbles and there is so much misery locally, nationally and globally that it’s easy to be depressed and that can manifest itself in many ways. If you are having sex 2-3 times a week you are doing better than most. Things will get better, just be sure to vote! If Biden wins, I will be so happy my husband might be worn out for days.

OP here. Please don’t bring politics into this. People have differing views and it’s not appropriate on this thread. I also do not want to think of creepy job Biden.

Ohhh. Maybe you’re a Trumpette and he thinks it’s gross?

OP, you can’t police the replies when you ask someone a question. This tells me a lot about your pandemic home atmosphere....

OP said Trump is equally gross. I agree everything on here turns into politics.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you mean you just started having sex again? Do you have a newborn?

OP here. Yes. We have a son that is turning 2 later this month and a son born in May. We started having sex at 8 weeks at he doesn’t seem very interested the last month.

You have a baby that is 4 months. You also have a two year old. Odds are, you may not look or feel the same.

Oy, that answer is offensive. Or maybe he's exhausted from having a two year old and an infant!!! Middle of the night wake ups.

OP said her baby sleeps through the night except one wake up. It sounds like she is the one getting up with the baby. She said the older child sleep through the night.

[Anonymous]

Is this really what it takes to keep up a lot of sex in a marriage? A 4 month post partum mom asking if her husband is no longer sexually into her?

My question may sound harsh & I don’t mean it that way. But with 2 under 2 I wasn’t losing sleep about how sexy my husband felt I was.

[Anonymous]

OP just wants to brag about how much sex she’s having.

[Anonymous]

OP, you are probably still hormonal. You have two very small children during a pandemic and you're still having sex several times a week. This stuff is in your head.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP just wants to brag about how much sex she’s having.

Everything isn’t a humble brag. People are different. To some degree I could relate to OP’s concern.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP just wants to brag about how much sex she’s having.

Yep. Bragplaining. That said, he likely doesn't find you that attractive anymore.