Husband Losing Interest In Me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he know how often you want it? I'm a 38 year old man and would be thrilled to get it 3x per week and would also happily put out more.

Maybe he thinks you're tired. Is your sex very routine?

OP here. I’m fine with less but he’s usually not. That’s why I’m worried. He normally initiates.

He knows this, he knows the baby has you tired, and he's trying to be considerate. That's my guess. But you shouldn't guess.

Communicate with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he know how often you want it? I'm a 38 year old man and would be thrilled to get it 3x per week and would also happily put out more.

Maybe he thinks you're tired. Is your sex very routine?

OP here. I’m fine with less but he’s usually not. That’s why I’m worried. He normally initiates.

He knows this, he knows the baby has you tired, and he's trying to be considerate. That's my guess. But you shouldn't guess.

Communicate with him.

+1

[Anonymous]

He can cheat at work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What are your ages and what kind of job does he have?

OP here. I’m 38 and he’s 40. We are both in healthcare. He’s an anesthesiologist.

If he is MD he have to go to work.

[Anonymous]

Pffff. Come back in 15 years when you have real problems.

[Anonymous]

We found the transition from one kid to two surprisingly exhausting — like way more than 2x the work. Youngest is almost a year now, and we have sex a couple times a week, which is less than what we’d both like but so often we’re just too tired for much!

[Anonymous]

Get a peloton.

[Anonymous]

Surprise him by dying your hair a different color and changing the cut, while wearing something he hasn't seen you in before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are over thinking this. We are all living in boring bubbles and there is so much misery locally, nationally and globally that it’s easy to be depressed and that can manifest itself in many ways. If you are having sex 2-3 times a week you are doing better than most. Things will get better, just be sure to vote! If Biden wins, I will be so happy my husband might be worn out for days.

OP here. Please don’t bring politics into this. People have differing views and it’s not appropriate on this thread. I also do not want to think of creepy job Biden.

Please please think about the hunk that is Trump.

[Anonymous]

Did he see your vagina during childbirth? Some men can't come back from that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did he see your vagina during childbirth? Some men can't come back from that

Is this honestly true? Are men really this pathetic? I've seen my wife give birth 3x, poop and all.

I devour every inch of her every chance I get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are over thinking this. We are all living in boring bubbles and there is so much misery locally, nationally and globally that it’s easy to be depressed and that can manifest itself in many ways. If you are having sex 2-3 times a week you are doing better than most. Things will get better, just be sure to vote! If Biden wins, I will be so happy my husband might be worn out for days.

OP here. Please don’t bring politics into this. People have differing views and it’s not appropriate on this thread. I also do not want to think of creepy job Biden.

Lighten up

NP

+1 maybe you are too uptight.

[Anonymous]

You are tired, he is tired, and he is probably bored of you for now. You being the only person he sees outside of working hours is a lot of together time. There is some truth to abcense makes the heart grow fonder.

You seem high strung. Surely you realize having sex 3 times per week with a newborn during a pandemic isn't a "problem"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are tired, he is tired, and he is probably bored of you for now. You being the only person he sees outside of working hours is a lot of together time. There is some truth to abcense makes the heart grow fonder.

You seem high strung. Surely you realize having sex 3 times per week with a newborn during a pandemic isn't a "problem"

This.

[Anonymous]

OP, having a newborn lowers men's testosterone. Take it easy already.