How do people's nannies "live alone?"

[Anonymous]

You are dreaming if you think your nanny is really living alone. She isn't. She dates, has sex, all the stuff you do.

[Anonymous]

According tk the feds, majority of the eeoc rules dont apply to very small employers anyway.
https://www.eeoc.gov/employers/small-business/1-do-federal-employment-discrimination-laws-enforced-eeoc-apply-my

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are dreaming if you think your nanny is really living alone. She isn't. She dates, has sex, all the stuff you do.

This. Even if she says she lives alone, she is not alone. In fact my friends and family who live alone are seeing more people than my friends who don't. No one is going spend 1 year+ completely isolated from anyone except their employer unless they are being paid an insane amount of money.

The way to ask the question is "This is how our family is approaching COVID. I do x. Husband does y. We don't take public transit. Etc. How are you and your household handling it?"

And then after that, you just have to decide if you trust this person to be careful or not and let go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are dreaming if you think your nanny is really living alone. She isn't. She dates, has sex, all the stuff you do.

Mine does. She is born-again and hasn’t dated for years. I know she’s probably a unicorn but we got lucky.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You are dreaming if you think your nanny is really living alone. She isn't. She dates, has sex, all the stuff you do.

Mine does. She is born-again and hasn’t dated for years. I know she’s probably a unicorn but we got lucky.

SAme except it’s a maturity thing with our nanny. She’s a beautiful older women (seriously, she looks like Catherine Deneuve) who came to nannying as her second career and has zero interest in dating. She is able to live alone through her pension from her first career.

We got lucky on so many counts!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It is illegal to take into account someones family status when hiring. If you would be upset if you were fired because you were pregnant, for example, and try and hire a nanny who lives alone, you're the worst kind of hypocrite.

Family status is not protected. This is what is covered:

https://www.eeoc.gov/prohibited-employment-policiespractices

From your own link, marital status, whether or not you have children, and the number of children you have are absolutely covered.

https://www.eeoc.gov/pre-employment-inquiries-and-marital-status-or-number-children

Refusing to hire someone because they live with a spouse, and/or their children is absolutely discrimination.

There are people who don’t have custody of their children and/or don’t live with their spouse. There are also people who have others live with them. Regardless, asking if anyone lives with you is NOT protected.

[Anonymous]

Why would the nanny not have a family? A boyfriend? Children? or Friends?

Why would you want a hermit to care for your children?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are dreaming if you think your nanny is really living alone. She isn't. She dates, has sex, all the stuff you do.

Mine does. She is born-again and hasn’t dated for years. I know she’s probably a unicorn but we got lucky.

SAme except it’s a maturity thing with our nanny. She’s a beautiful older women (seriously, she looks like Catherine Deneuve) who came to nannying as her second career and has zero interest in dating. She is able to live alone through her pension from her first career.

We got lucky on so many counts!

I know several nannies (myself included) who are aware of the dangers and are more cautious than our nf.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would the nanny not have a family? A boyfriend? Children? or Friends?

Why would you want a hermit to care for your children?

Some of us are being safe and calling our friends. That doesn’t make us hermits.

[Anonymous]

I’m a nanny and I’m 100x more cautious than my employers!! They are so selfish and put me at risk constantly. I hate Monday’s because we live in a hot spot and I have to hear all about their visits with friends and trips to the beach. I don’t go anywhere!! I have started going to the grocery store for myself but I’m not telling my employers, because then they will be sending me 4x a week. I like them to think I’m super safe (and I am compared to them!!) so they can’t ask me to do errands or play dates with all their unsafe friends. I don’t even see my own friends!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a nanny and I’m 100x more cautious than my employers!! They are so selfish and put me at risk constantly. I hate Monday’s because we live in a hot spot and I have to hear all about their visits with friends and trips to the beach. I don’t go anywhere!! I have started going to the grocery store for myself but I’m not telling my employers, because then they will be sending me 4x a week. I like them to think I’m super safe (and I am compared to them!!) so they can’t ask me to do errands or play dates with all their unsafe friends. I don’t even see my own friends!

Sorry you have such a selfish nanny family. I hope you are able to stay healthy, pp.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would the nanny not have a family? A boyfriend? Children? or Friends?

Why would you want a hermit to care for your children?

Well, in case you hadn’t heard, there’s this deadly, contagious pandemic going around and the less exposure the better.

Also, single nannies who live alone and are following covid precautions and best practice protocols are responsible - not “hermits”.

Grow up, PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a nanny and I’m 100x more cautious than my employers!! They are so selfish and put me at risk constantly. I hate Monday’s because we live in a hot spot and I have to hear all about their visits with friends and trips to the beach. I don’t go anywhere!! I have started going to the grocery store for myself but I’m not telling my employers, because then they will be sending me 4x a week. I like them to think I’m super safe (and I am compared to them!!) so they can’t ask me to do errands or play dates with all their unsafe friends. I don’t even see my own friends!

You should have quit months ago.

[Anonymous]

I make sure I only work for people who pay me well.

I live in Los aAngeles and own a 2bed/1bath home in a great neighborhood.

I live alone, bought my home myself.
I also make sure to put money in savings and precovid traveled whenever I was off.

Nannies aren’t lowly poor people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a nanny and I live alone in Los Angeles. I make $35/hr. if you want a nanny who lives alone, you need to be paying a salary that makes it possible to live alone. It’s simple math. If you want to pay 18-20 before taxes, then your nanny won’t live alone.

This.