At what age would you feel comfortable with your child riding an Uber?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have two parents. Why is the other parent not helping if you choose more kids?

DH is often operating late. He is a surgeon. I can’t rely on him to drive kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have two parents. Why is the other parent not helping if you choose more kids?

DH is often operating late. He is a surgeon. I can’t rely on him to drive kids.

Do you either stay home or have a very part time job (I know many surgeon families, no way you have 3 and work FT).

And you have a nanny. And your oldest is 11...

You have way bigger problems then not having a carpool.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have two parents. Why is the other parent not helping if you choose more kids?

DH is often operating late. He is a surgeon. I can’t rely on him to drive kids.

So hire another nanny. This isn’t brain surgery.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have two parents. Why is the other parent not helping if you choose more kids?

DH is often operating late. He is a surgeon. I can’t rely on him to drive kids.

Then hire three nannies - one for each child. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have two parents. Why is the other parent not helping if you choose more kids?

DH is often operating late. He is a surgeon. I can’t rely on him to drive kids.

So hire another nanny. This isn’t brain surgery.

Clearly it is.

[Anonymous]

Why don't you tell us WHY this is so hard? What's on their schedules? Honestly it sounds like they are overscheduled.

[Anonymous]

OP have you thought about getting an au pair and keeping the nanny? Some families just need two nannies or two au pairs or a combo.

No on the uber/lyft idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP have you thought about getting an au pair and keeping the nanny? Some families just need two nannies or two au pairs or a combo.

No on the uber/lyft idea.

Also people are giving you a hard time but a lot of people are in a similar situation at times and they carpool or they have grandparents around, helping with the driving.

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Anonymous wrote:For younger kids check out Rydz. https://www.catchrydz.com

This is a genius business idea - wish it had been around when my kids were younger!

We use them and they are great.

OP, share "roughly" your kids ages and activities. Also does your nanny drive? If your oldest is 11, you might be having your kids do too much. Also what about setting up a carpool with some of the activities - like you drop off and another parent brings your kid home. Also an 11 year old is old enough to have a wait around a little while. Say you need to pick up two kids from different activities at the same time, just have your 11 year old read a book in a safe place (lobby, etc.) and wait on you.

I would definitely revisit your schedule and see how you can simplify. Needing three different drivers for only three small kids sounds excessive in terms of their schedule.

[Anonymous]

Scale back or even eliminate the activities. Some things have to be sacrificed. They will grow up just fine -assuming they have enough family togetherness.

[Anonymous]

I let my 10yo ride the bus. I'd do that over uber -- is that an option?

[Anonymous]

Does Hop, Skip, Drive not exist where you are in the world OP (or a like service)?

I wouldn't put my minor in an Uber or Lyft on their own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Scale back or even eliminate the activities. Some things have to be sacrificed. They will grow up just fine -assuming they have enough family togetherness.

This. Family is much more critical than activities.