Lingerie

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Lonely_Sojourner wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Lonely_Sojourner wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

Welcome to the party as misery loves company!! Yes, from's a man's perspective, I certainly appreciate a bit of effort when the lady I'm with wears a matched set of bra/panties as certainly sets the mood... It doesn't have to be Journelle or Intimissi, so don't go broke...

OK, it is really weird to me that a man would know lingerie brands.

I agree. That can’t be a man.

Hate to disappoint you all; however, I'm all (straight) man and a bit creative. Let me explain, I took pics of the bra/panty tags that she would bring home as that told me: designer, size, style, etc. Yes, I truly enjoyed doting on her for the 17 years of our marriage as our relationship was nothing short of utopia. I have to share that I simply do not understand some of these comments. I bought her a set of Mikimoto Pearls for our 10-year anniversary, am I wrong for knowing quality labels, designers in the jewelry arena as well? I'm just a simple guy from the South that truly loved his wife and took every opportunity to ensure she knew such each and every day. Perhaps some of you might consider taking a page from my playbook as life can change in an instant. Tomorrow is not guaranteed...

My man! Kudos...

I posted a few previous responses and seeing her in sexy bra, panties, lingerie is more for my enjoyment and she likes wearing them so win/win!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is your favorite outfit (or your go-to) when you want to get some?

Chanel No.5 and a rope of pearls.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Black patent stiletto heels and stockings, done.

Ok, pal.

Would a girl not dress like this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is your favorite outfit (or your go-to) when you want to get some?

https://ladysuitebeauty.com/products/botanical-oil

I promise that this is the holy grail. It's meant for V but I use it head to toe. Not only is it a fountain of youth for its intended use, but everywhere. The scent is so subtle and delicious. I'm not into perfume. It melts into skin instantly. I get devoured (literally). Doesn't matter what I wear, it's off in a second.

[Anonymous]

The cost aspect is frustrating. The cheap stuff is prickly and uncomfortable do not a daily wear.... but it’d be fun to wear sexy stuff. And my husband would love it.

[Anonymous]

The cost aspect is frustrating. The cheap stuff is prickly and uncomfortable do not a daily wear.... but it’d be fun to wear sexy stuff. And my husband would love it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The cost aspect is frustrating. The cheap stuff is prickly and uncomfortable do not a daily wear.... but it’d be fun to wear sexy stuff. And my husband would love it.

The sexy stuff is OK to be the cheap stuff. I mean you don't wear it for very long... you aren't wearing it all day to work (unless you are trying to seduce your boss to try to get that raise!).
Usually its on for like 1/2 hr or less. I do get the cheap stuff from china -- slow shipping, but you can get stuff for like $5, so why not.

But what outfit would find sexy vs what does he find sexy? Someone had mentioned stockings and stilettos.
Porn star type outfit? PVC / leather? Schoolgirl / cheerleader?

And what about for him? Anyone have their man dress up? I'm not even sure what a dude would wear to turn his lady (or man) on. What is the male equivalent of stilettos and stockings?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is your favorite outfit (or your go-to) when you want to get some?

https://ladysuitebeauty.com/products/botanical-oil

I promise that this is the holy grail. It's meant for V but I use it head to toe. Not only is it a fountain of youth for its intended use, but everywhere. The scent is so subtle and delicious. I'm not into perfume. It melts into skin instantly. I get devoured (literally). Doesn't matter what I wear, it's off in a second.

WTF? Seriously? Special lotion for your va-jay-jay???? I think you are getting ripped off...

[Anonymous]

Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

Have you met in person yet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

Have you met in person yet?

Yes! We originally met in person at work functions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

Just a really nice matching set or single piece. Garter, stocking heels, whole ensemble. As far a specific brand/selection it really depends on what size you wear. Last winter DW met me at DCA in a new trench coat I bought her for Christmas, a full ensemble from Bordelle, very nice 4” heels, and a key to a very nice hotel room. It was long long 20 minute ride to the hotel.

[Anonymous]

As a guy I'm totally good with a nice thong or g-string... Can be of the everyday variety. No silk or lace needed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is your favorite outfit (or your go-to) when you want to get some?

Chanel No.5 and a rope of pearls.

Freshly showered and a red silk nightgown. It works like a cape with a bull and it has never failed to work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

Me again. I just ordered several sets of lingerie and other sexy accoutrements based on several of the recommendations here. Thank you for the suggestions previous posters. Now if only that attractive guy at the gym can work up the desire and/or courage to ask me out, I can put them to good use.