| I had no plans for my mom or dad to be there during delivery and then my mom was actually the only person I wanted during birth—and we do not have some great relationship. You may feel differently about having your mom in the moment. I never expected that and it happened to me. So be careful about being overly rigid—your parents job is to adapt to your needs as they evolve. Tell them that. |
| Just say you will call from the hospital, and then call once the baby has arrived. It's not a lie. |