Should I call it quits... deflated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:FWIW I don’t think there is anything wrong with telling someone to stay strong. I have had four failed cycles, going into my 5th. I sure as hell cry and grieve but I do frankly have to stay strong whether I like it or not.

That’s great, not everyone is the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FWIW I don’t think there is anything wrong with telling someone to stay strong. I have had four failed cycles, going into my 5th. I sure as hell cry and grieve but I do frankly have to stay strong whether I like it or not.

That’s great, not everyone is the same.

Actually in this respect we ARE the same. We all have to find the strength if we want to keep going down this path.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FWIW I don’t think there is anything wrong with telling someone to stay strong. I have had four failed cycles, going into my 5th. I sure as hell cry and grieve but I do frankly have to stay strong whether I like it or not.

That’s great, not everyone is the same.

Actually in this respect we ARE the same. We all have to find the strength if we want to keep going down this path.

Yes, and someone can choose to be upset and grieve and then when they are ready, get it together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FWIW I don’t think there is anything wrong with telling someone to stay strong. I have had four failed cycles, going into my 5th. I sure as hell cry and grieve but I do frankly have to stay strong whether I like it or not.

That’s great, not everyone is the same.

Actually in this respect we ARE the same. We all have to find the strength if we want to keep going down this path.

Yes, and someone can choose to be upset and grieve and then when they are ready, get it together.

but staying strong and feeling grief are not mutually exclusive events

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FWIW I don’t think there is anything wrong with telling someone to stay strong. I have had four failed cycles, going into my 5th. I sure as hell cry and grieve but I do frankly have to stay strong whether I like it or not.

That’s great, not everyone is the same.

Actually in this respect we ARE the same. We all have to find the strength if we want to keep going down this path.

Yes, and someone can choose to be upset and grieve and then when they are ready, get it together.

but staying strong and feeling grief are not mutually exclusive events

My point is that it’s ok to not be strong in this process sometimes. It is rough, emotional and can take a toll. We’ll just have to agree to disagree.