Do women really always know when their DH is cheating or in love with someone else?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:"most men cheat when they are about 45-55 because they are having a mid-life crissis - NOTHING to do with their wives. They are unhappy with their jobs, bodies, sexiual function"

No, most of them are unhappy with their wife and/or marriage. so yes it has a lot to do with the wives.

No, the first person was right. They are unhappy with their LIVES and blame their wives. Quite common.

Coz their wives are always unhappy and made DHs miserable.

She paid attention to me more than my DW did; that’s all it took. My fault? Maybe. Her fault? Maybe. Cheating is about needs and opportunity.

Awwww did hims need hims widdle man baby ego stwoked?? Awwww poor widdle man.

Just a thought...have you tried using your words like a big boy? "Honey I feel neglected in this relationship and I need you to put more effort in."

Or even "I'm not getting what I need from this relationship so I want to get a divorce/have an open marriage."

It's the dishonesty and underhandedness that's so hurtful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"most men cheat when they are about 45-55 because they are having a mid-life crissis - NOTHING to do with their wives. They are unhappy with their jobs, bodies, sexiual function"

No, most of them are unhappy with their wife and/or marriage. so yes it has a lot to do with the wives.

No, the first person was right. They are unhappy with their LIVES and blame their wives. Quite common.

Coz their wives are always unhappy and made DHs miserable.

She paid attention to me more than my DW did; that’s all it took. My fault? Maybe. Her fault? Maybe. Cheating is about needs and opportunity.

Awwww did hims need hims widdle man baby ego stwoked?? Awwww poor widdle man.

Just a thought...have you tried using your words like a big boy? "Honey I feel neglected in this relationship and I need you to put more effort in."

Or even "I'm not getting what I need from this relationship so I want to get a divorce/have an open marriage."

It's the dishonesty and underhandedness that's so hurtful.

Unless you’ve been there, STFU. you’re as faithful as your options.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"most men cheat when they are about 45-55 because they are having a mid-life crissis - NOTHING to do with their wives. They are unhappy with their jobs, bodies, sexiual function"

No, most of them are unhappy with their wife and/or marriage. so yes it has a lot to do with the wives.

No, the first person was right. They are unhappy with their LIVES and blame their wives. Quite common.

Coz their wives are always unhappy and made DHs miserable.

She paid attention to me more than my DW did; that’s all it took. My fault? Maybe. Her fault? Maybe. Cheating is about needs and opportunity.

Awwww did hims need hims widdle man baby ego stwoked?? Awwww poor widdle man.

Just a thought...have you tried using your words like a big boy? "Honey I feel neglected in this relationship and I need you to put more effort in."

Or even "I'm not getting what I need from this relationship so I want to get a divorce/have an open marriage."

It's the dishonesty and underhandedness that's so hurtful.

Unless you’ve been there, STFU. you’re as faithful as your options.

HAHAHAHAHA omg NO not everyone is like you. I go away to conferences and get hit on all the time, mostly by men but sometimes women, and I'm Bi so that's an option for me. I have cheated zero times because I'm a person of honesty and integrity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"most men cheat when they are about 45-55 because they are having a mid-life crissis - NOTHING to do with their wives. They are unhappy with their jobs, bodies, sexiual function"

No, most of them are unhappy with their wife and/or marriage. so yes it has a lot to do with the wives.

No, the first person was right. They are unhappy with their LIVES and blame their wives. Quite common.

Coz their wives are always unhappy and made DHs miserable.

She paid attention to me more than my DW did; that’s all it took. My fault? Maybe. Her fault? Maybe. Cheating is about needs and opportunity.

Awwww did hims need hims widdle man baby ego stwoked?? Awwww poor widdle man.

Just a thought...have you tried using your words like a big boy? "Honey I feel neglected in this relationship and I need you to put more effort in."

Or even "I'm not getting what I need from this relationship so I want to get a divorce/have an open marriage."

It's the dishonesty and underhandedness that's so hurtful.

Unless you’ve been there, STFU. you’re as faithful as your options.

HAHAHAHAHA omg NO not everyone is like you. I go away to conferences and get hit on all the time, mostly by men but sometimes women, and I'm Bi so that's an option for me. I have cheated zero times because I'm a person of honesty and integrity.

+1. My partner cheated on me. When confronted, he begged me not to end our relationship. I agreed. I had many opportunities to cheat on him and would have been completely entitled to do so. But, in the end, I chose not to, because that’s not who I am. I am transparent, honest and strive to interact with the people around me in a fair and respectful way.

In the end, that is the reason I kicked my ex out - because he was dishonest and manipulative at his core. The cheating was just a manifestation of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"most men cheat when they are about 45-55 because they are having a mid-life crissis - NOTHING to do with their wives. They are unhappy with their jobs, bodies, sexiual function"

No, most of them are unhappy with their wife and/or marriage. so yes it has a lot to do with the wives.

No, the first person was right. They are unhappy with their LIVES and blame their wives. Quite common.

Coz their wives are always unhappy and made DHs miserable.

She paid attention to me more than my DW did; that’s all it took. My fault? Maybe. Her fault? Maybe. Cheating is about needs and opportunity.

Awwww did hims need hims widdle man baby ego stwoked?? Awwww poor widdle man.

Just a thought...have you tried using your words like a big boy? "Honey I feel neglected in this relationship and I need you to put more effort in."

Or even "I'm not getting what I need from this relationship so I want to get a divorce/have an open marriage."

It's the dishonesty and underhandedness that's so hurtful.

Unless you’ve been there, STFU. you’re as faithful as your options.

HAHAHAHAHA omg NO not everyone is like you. I go away to conferences and get hit on all the time, mostly by men but sometimes women, and I'm Bi so that's an option for me. I have cheated zero times because I'm a person of honesty and integrity.

Uh huh. Just wait. It hasn’t happened yet. We will see how strong you are then.

[Anonymous]

If you don’t have sex on the regular, you can guarantee he’s gonna stray. If you think otherwise, you’re foolish.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you don’t have sex on the regular, you can guarantee he’s gonna stray. If you think otherwise, you’re foolish.

I’m flabbergasted DCUM believed have regular sex keeps your male partner from straying. Despite all the men here posting they cheated because they only had marital sex once a year or their wife stopped oral, there are millions of men having sex with their wife or long-time partner whenever they want and still cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you don’t have sex on the regular, you can guarantee he’s gonna stray. If you think otherwise, you’re foolish.

I’m flabbergasted DCUM believed have regular sex keeps your male partner from straying. Despite all the men here posting they cheated because they only had marital sex once a year or their wife stopped oral, there are millions of men having sex with their wife or long-time partner whenever they want and still cheating.

It won't keep them all from straying. But it will keep some of them from staying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you don’t have sex on the regular, you can guarantee he’s gonna stray. If you think otherwise, you’re foolish.

I’m flabbergasted DCUM believed have regular sex keeps your male partner from straying. Despite all the men here posting they cheated because they only had marital sex once a year or their wife stopped oral, there are millions of men having sex with their wife or long-time partner whenever they want and still cheating.

It won't keep them all from straying. But it will keep some of them from staying.

That’s what your DH wants you to believe.

[Anonymous]

I travel a lot on business and I've always been amazed at how often men, especially at conferences, assume that women at conferences are interested in what they are which is sex. Most of the time women only make up 10-20% of the attendees and maybe half of those are of the age/attractiveness that men are interested in. At the evening social events it doesn't take long for the predators to show their skin at which point I quickly look at my watch and say its time for me to call my HUSBAND and children before they go to bed. Most of the time I don't know if they are married or not but I assume the majority are married and I feel sorry for their wives and children. I hate that they assume I might be interested just because I have a vagina. Maybe one day I'll just simply say f--k off and leave it at that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I travel a lot on business and I've always been amazed at how often men, especially at conferences, assume that women at conferences are interested in what they are which is sex. Most of the time women only make up 10-20% of the attendees and maybe half of those are of the age/attractiveness that men are interested in. At the evening social events it doesn't take long for the predators to show their skin at which point I quickly look at my watch and say its time for me to call my HUSBAND and children before they go to bed. Most of the time I don't know if they are married or not but I assume the majority are married and I feel sorry for their wives and children. I hate that they assume I might be interested just because I have a vagina. Maybe one day I'll just simply say f--k off and leave it at that.

Have you ever been tempted? Do you tell your husband?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I travel a lot on business and I've always been amazed at how often men, especially at conferences, assume that women at conferences are interested in what they are which is sex. Most of the time women only make up 10-20% of the attendees and maybe half of those are of the age/attractiveness that men are interested in. At the evening social events it doesn't take long for the predators to show their skin at which point I quickly look at my watch and say its time for me to call my HUSBAND and children before they go to bed. Most of the time I don't know if they are married or not but I assume the majority are married and I feel sorry for their wives and children. I hate that they assume I might be interested just because I have a vagina. Maybe one day I'll just simply say f--k off and leave it at that.

Have you ever been tempted? Do you tell your husband?

Some of the men were very good looking, but I've never been tempted. The first time or two it happened I did tell my DH and his reaction was what you'd expect - he wanted to kill them! Now I don't mention it and I generally avoid the social events so for me it's mostly a thing of the past.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you don’t have sex on the regular, you can guarantee he’s gonna stray. If you think otherwise, you’re foolish.

I’m flabbergasted DCUM believed have regular sex keeps your male partner from straying. Despite all the men here posting they cheated because they only had marital sex once a year or their wife stopped oral, there are millions of men having sex with their wife or long-time partner whenever they want and still cheating.

I’m flabbergasted DCUM believes that NOT having regular sex is anything less than 100% certain he will stray. It’s like an engraved invitation to go find it elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

I just found out my husband has been having an emotional affair. Had no idea. He was neither happier or sadder (at home).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you don’t have sex on the regular, you can guarantee he’s gonna stray. If you think otherwise, you’re foolish.

I’m flabbergasted DCUM believed have regular sex keeps your male partner from straying. Despite all the men here posting they cheated because they only had marital sex once a year or their wife stopped oral, there are millions of men having sex with their wife or long-time partner whenever they want and still cheating.

Lucky them!