Tell Me About Your Post-50 Post-Divorce Experience

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Late 60s M here. Most on line dating turned out Ok. Two real crazies, one superb woman and the rest were nice ladies who were just not for me. One of the crazies was younger by 20 years or so while the rest were in my age range. The superb lady, after some passionate kisses (really could have fallen for her), let me know after discovering that I was conservative that she couldn’t continue seeing me. While disappointing it was probably best not to give your heart to someone incompatible (although she was just simply lovely). Several decades ago I would have tried to convince her to reconsider, now-a-days...No.

Now I’m trying mixers for folks in my age range. One this week. Will allow for face to face contact. I’ll see how that turns out and post it here if folks are interested.

Does your still work?

Where are these mysterious mixers for 50-60 year olds? Turning 60 this year and want to meet someone my age + or - 10 years.

[Anonymous]

taketothebank wrote:

I'm looking for the same thing - love and sex, in that order. I want someone to love me, and yes, I still believe it's possible at any age. I'm 53, and I know there is someone out there who will love me.

You are braver than I am.

I was married for 25 years and I am not sure I am actually looking for love this time around. I am looking for good sex (by good I mean adventurous, uninhibited, and plentiful) and excellent companionship (by that I mean a lady that likes to have fun traveling, going to dinner, talking) and I am happy when I find someone one who is looking for the same thing. An evening like going to dinner, coming home and having sex on the back deck or in the backyard (when it is dark enough that no one will call the cops) and then watching a movie is, to me, a great evening (and a true benefit from not having kids in the house anymore)

And I believe that, yes, there is likely someone out there who will love you.

yes...but does yours still work?

[Anonymous]

yes...but does yours still work?


Yes, it does. Thanks for asking.

[Anonymous]

taketothebank wrote:

I'm looking for the same thing - love and sex, in that order. I want someone to love me, and yes, I still believe it's possible at any age. I'm 53, and I know there is someone out there who will love me.

You are braver than I am.

I was married for 25 years and I am not sure I am actually looking for love this time around. I am looking for good sex (by good I mean adventurous, uninhibited, and plentiful) and excellent companionship (by that I mean a lady that likes to have fun traveling, going to dinner, talking) and I am happy when I find someone one who is looking for the same thing. An evening like going to dinner, coming home and having sex on the back deck or in the backyard (when it is dark enough that no one will call the cops) and then watching a movie is, to me, a great evening (and a true benefit from not having kids in the house anymore)

And I believe that, yes, there is likely someone out there who will love you.

After all that, I think you are bound to fall in love with that person. It's given.

[Anonymous]

After all that, I think you are bound to fall in love with that person. It's given.

And, it still works. Wanted to make sure I told the poster who was asking about it how it was doing and save them the time in posting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

After all that, I think you are bound to fall in love with that person. It's given.

And, it still works. Wanted to make sure I told the poster who was asking about it how it was doing and save them the time in posting.

It wasn't me - but thanks for clarifying. Best of luck to you for making out in the backyard ....hehehe

[taketothebank]

After all that, I think you are bound to fall in love with that person. It's given

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Really? The female posters at 1/17 6:40 and 1/17 8:06 says all they want is sex. It seems like I could have a number of evenings like the one I described and my partner would leave the next day without a need for anymore contact. Do you mean that I would fall in love and they would "hit it and quit it"?

[Anonymous]

Guy pushing 60 and looks like marriage may be ending. Look and feel much younger than my chronological age, but (I know this sounds bad, but. . .) am concerned that most folks my age (men and women, but only interested in women) look so much older and I'm just not attracted to them, and most women 10 years or more younger will run for the hills based on my age in an online world, Any guys out there with advice in the 60/early 60s range? Any women out there closer to 50 with whether they would date someone 10 or 10+ years older and, if so, what would (or did) make you interested in that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Guy pushing 60 and looks like marriage may be ending. Look and feel much younger than my chronological age, but (I know this sounds bad, but. . .) am concerned that most folks my age (men and women, but only interested in women) look so much older and I'm just not attracted to them, and most women 10 years or more younger will run for the hills based on my age in an online world, Any guys out there with advice in the 60/early 60s range? Any women out there closer to 50 with whether they would date someone 10 or 10+ years older and, if so, what would (or did) make you interested in that?

Hard one to answer. What worked for me (late 60s M looking for 50s, 60s women) are good pics — I’ve aged well and I made sure that I used the most flattering AND recent pics. I also dated the pics and showed both face and body (helps to wear black heh heh). Additionally, and I think this is extremely important, I created a word picture using both heart felt feelings and humor. Made sure that my language became my friend as I described myself and what I was looking for. These two items are what attracted LOTS of attention and because I didn’t lie in my profile women gave me a check mark in the “honest guy” column upon meeting.

Did I find the luv of my life? Well no, still looking. Many factors — such as compatibility, disinterest on both our parts, internal questions about wisdom of taking it forward and yes some women looked older — all are a factor but you know what looks while still important took on less of a significance if she smiled a lot, enjoyed mischievous eye to eye contact and oozed happiness and kindness towards me (you know the advice our grandmas use to give us).

Don’t know if I’ll ever remarry but going forward I see the possibility of a special woman in my life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Guy pushing 60 and looks like marriage may be ending. Look and feel much younger than my chronological age, but (I know this sounds bad, but. . .) am concerned that most folks my age (men and women, but only interested in women) look so much older and I'm just not attracted to them, and most women 10 years or more younger will run for the hills based on my age in an online world, Any guys out there with advice in the 60/early 60s range? Any women out there closer to 50 with whether they would date someone 10 or 10+ years older and, if so, what would (or did) make you interested in that?

I'm 54 FM, but can pass for a much younger age. I usually don't lie about my age, but people tell me all the time that I look much younger. I think age is not that important to me, rather how you act. I want someone fun, outgoing, passionate and definitely honest. If you fit those qualities, I would not hesitate to meet you.
If I were you, don't start with your age. Start with your best qualities, and be your best self when you meet a new person. When age comes up, don't lie. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: Guy pushing 60 and looks like marriage may be ending. Look and feel much younger than my chronological age, but (I know this sounds bad, but. . .) am concerned that most folks my age (men and women, but only interested in women) look so much older and I'm just not attracted to them, and most women 10 years or more younger will run for the hills based on my age in an online world, Any guys out there with advice in the 60/early 60s range? Any women out there closer to 50 with whether they would date someone 10 or 10+ years older and, if so, what would (or did) make you interested in that?

Hard one to answer. What worked for me (late 60s M looking for 50s, 60s women) are good pics — I’ve aged well and I made sure that I used the most flattering AND recent pics. I also dated the pics and showed both face and body (helps to wear black heh heh). Additionally, and I think this is extremely important, I created a word picture using both heart felt feelings and humor. Made sure that my language became my friend as I described myself and what I was looking for. These two items are what attracted LOTS of attention and because I didn’t lie in my profile women gave me a check mark in the “honest guy” column upon meeting.

Did I find the luv of my life? Well no, still looking. Many factors — such as compatibility, disinterest on both our parts, internal questions about wisdom of taking it forward and yes some women looked older — all are a factor but you know what looks while still important took on less of a significance if she smiled a lot, enjoyed mischievous eye to eye contact and oozed happiness and kindness towards me (you know the advice our grandmas use to give us).

Don’t know if I’ll ever remarry but going forward I see the possibility of a special woman in my life.

I absolutely agree with you - some things are a lot more important than age!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Finding someone and having a healthy sexual relationship after 50 is difficult. I just gave up and flew to Brazil. There I found a beautiful 30something who enjoys having sex every night. Wh have been togather five years and it still is as exciting as the first time.

Well done!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Over weekend had amazing sex, blowjob with climax, PIV,

Life after divorce is amazing

Don’t know why, but women seem to have a switch that gets turned on when they are single and in their 50’s

Another amazing weekend. Slow sensual massages with oil and then and a long doggy style session. Get hot just thinking about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Guy pushing 60 and looks like marriage may be ending. Look and feel much younger than my chronological age, but (I know this sounds bad, but. . .) am concerned that most folks my age (men and women, but only interested in women) look so much older and I'm just not attracted to them, and most women 10 years or more younger will run for the hills based on my age in an online world, Any guys out there with advice in the 60/early 60s range? Any women out there closer to 50 with whether they would date someone 10 or 10+ years older and, if so, what would (or did) make you interested in that?

Uh huh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The menopause switch kicks off really quickly as vaginal atrophy and loss of libido starts. The rise in sex, only in your early 50s, completely collapses by your late 50s. I call it the "last hurrah." The first thing I noticed when Hillary was dumb enough to publish her drug list, was no Vagifem or topical estrogen. I immediately thought, oh her sex life is over too.

Women — is this really true?