I think our friend is annoyed with us but she can’t see her own faults.

[Anonymous]

She brings her toddler/baby to events where you drink wine? Does she drink too? Does she drive home?

As for pps saying OP's tone is wrong, who cares? I am a mom, and I am in OP's corner. Op doesn't need to care about her friends baby! If you people are honest, even parents don't care about other people's kids, but their own. Plus doesn't the kid need to sleep? First time OCD parents are the worst. Your kid is important to parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and even they get fed up with these looney tunes. It seems that every woman says she will not be like that friend that went baby crazy, and then one by one we all end up baby nuts. I had DH watch kids when I went out. OP, is you friend working and hence her kid is in a day care full time? Could be that her not becoming normal parent by now is tied to not seeing her kid as much as she would like. If she is SAHM, then she is an oddball. SAHM can't wait to ditch their kids if they can. Spell it out to her, she seems to have lost more than half her brain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She brings her toddler/baby to events where you drink wine? Does she drink too? Does she drive home?

As for pps saying OP's tone is wrong, who cares? I am a mom, and I am in OP's corner. Op doesn't need to care about her friends baby! If you people are honest, even parents don't care about other people's kids, but their own. Plus doesn't the kid need to sleep? First time OCD parents are the worst. Your kid is important to parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and even they get fed up with these looney tunes. It seems that every woman says she will not be like that friend that went baby crazy, and then one by one we all end up baby nuts. I had DH watch kids when I went out. OP, is you friend working and hence her kid is in a day care full time? Could be that her not becoming normal parent by now is tied to not seeing her kid as much as she would like. If she is SAHM, then she is an oddball. SAHM can't wait to ditch their kids if they can. Spell it out to her, she seems to have lost more than half her brain.

Having been both a sahm and a wohm, $10 says OPs friend is either working outside the home or she has a significant amount of childcare for some other reason.