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Anonymous wrote:We have a prep workbook and my kid has a hard time figuring out what the pictures are supposed to be.
If you have him go to a class, they will tell him what the pictures are and what the correct answers are. I hear the classes guarantee a gifted score.
This is an ever-ending controversial topic. Should you prep or not? Well, prep does work temporarily for the test and have some long term benefit by learning the patterns. If you believe you child is smart and won't struggle in AAP, then prep may be worth it. In my school, a few kids quit AAP in 5th grade. I figured that they prepped hard to get in. In the end, if you don't put in hard work or not intelligent enough to keep up with the AAP work, then you would end up quitting or not like school.
At the end of the day, water finds its own level. A "smart" kid will eventually get his due, regardless of whether or not he did AAP. "Smart" in
my book includes one of natural intelligence, ability to focus and work hard, high level of ambition, perseverance, etc. You can compensate for lack of natural intelligence through other criteria - hard work, perseverance, etc.
Almost all Asians expect their kids to be smart. They tell the kids as much and reinforce that through prep classes or other supplementation. They ALSO do concerts, museums, etc. (it's not the non-preppers that do it). I read a study recently that subjects behave in the way you expect them to. In the article, scientists labeled a cage containing a mouse as "smart" and did not label the others. Apparently the "smart" mouse behaved like it was actually smarter than the other mice (though its baseline measures were pretty much the same as the others). The conclusion was that the behavior of the testers (grad students in this case) encouraged the mice to put out his best. Think about this.. If a mouse can behave smarter than other mice because that's what someone expects of it, why not human children? Once this becomes part of their behavior, they compensate for lack of natural intelligence through hard work as needed.
If this was not the case, how do so many Asians get into TJ AND manage to complete 4 years of High School in one of the most brutal programs in the country? Of course, not all kids are smart and a fair number will drop off along the way, 7th grade when the enter MS, 9th grade when they enter HS, etc.
So, IMHO, prepping actually gives the kids an advantage. If you are borderline smart, it's a huge advantage. If you are below that line, it at least gives you a good work ethic.