Are partners in a marriage entitled to sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does the wife owe her husband sex even if she’s not in the mood for it?

No.

Master bate.

[Anonymous]

I agree, if I'm not in the mood to do so, I don't have to make sure my kids have enough to eat either.

Because you know my mood at the moment is more important than my obligations, responsibilities, or maintenance of the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What if said spouse gained 50 lbs?

Need more information before I can answer. Did most of it go to her Ts & A? If so, it's all good.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What if said spouse gained 50 lbs?

Which comes first, the weight gain or the rejection?

Anyway, the answer is still yes. However, you can hold out for frequent sex as a reward for losing weight. How about a baseline of sex twice a week, but every week he loses a pound earns a reward of another encounter, or bj, or role playing, etc?

NP. I don't even think that would work. DH doesn't want sex with me THAT much, I'm sure.
Sure would be nice though.

NP here. As a man, I believe that your DH probably does want sex with you that much, but he has given up hope of having it and has given up on himself. Seduce him. Show him what's possible. There was nothing I wouldn't have done for my late wife when sex was the reward.

We already have sex 2-3 x a week. He'd really lose a pound a week to get one more time?

[Anonymous]

Entitled? No. But, it's a reasonable expectation. If you can't meet your spouse's reasonable expectations, there's a problem you need to address.

[Anonymous]

If my DH or I are not in the mood when the other wants sex, we always do what we can to help the other get off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does the wife owe her husband sex even if she’s not in the mood for it?

No.

You really need to take a different tact, like doing something (emotionally) attractive in the first place.m

[Anonymous]

I am definitely entitled to get sex from my husband.

[Anonymous]

Entitled is the wrong word. Are you entitled to respect in a marriage? No.

Will a marriage last with out respect or sex? No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does the wife owe her husband sex even if she’s not in the mood for it?

No, but it is nice to throw in a quickie once a week.

[Anonymous]

No.
But I’ve still never refused in 25 years of marriage just the same.

[Anonymous]

Entitled is clearly the wrong word here.

But if you want to have a happy marriage, you will meet each other's needs, whether those are sexual or not. Otherwise, why be married at all?