sister is giving me an aneurysm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My sister texted me and said she spoke to her friends and she said to sleep easy they are not coming and neither was she. I responded by "thank you for cleaning up the mess you made". I know catty thing to say.

I thought that was the end of the incident. Not so much. My brother called me and asked me why the location had been moved from my house to our sisters church. I told him about the argument we had and easter lunch was still on at my house. The bitch tried to hijack the party. I messaged the family and told them the easter lunch had not been moved and I hoped to see them. Lets just say they are all relived not to be attending easter at her church. I don't think they would have gone to begin with. She is such a manipulative bitch and not to mention stupid. Did she really think no one would ask questions.

My brother told me he messaged her and said he did not appreciate her game playing and to grow up. I am not the only one that is sick of her entitled ways. I am so glad I called her out on her shit and stood up for myself. She is now the one out in the cold.

Op, each post of yours is better than the last!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My sister texted me and said she spoke to her friends and she said to sleep easy they are not coming and neither was she. I responded by "thank you for cleaning up the mess you made". I know catty thing to say.

I thought that was the end of the incident. Not so much. My brother called me and asked me why the location had been moved from my house to our sisters church. I told him about the argument we had and easter lunch was still on at my house. The bitch tried to hijack the party. I messaged the family and told them the easter lunch had not been moved and I hoped to see them. Lets just say they are all relived not to be attending easter at her church. I don't think they would have gone to begin with. She is such a manipulative bitch and not to mention stupid. Did she really think no one would ask questions.

My brother told me he messaged her and said he did not appreciate her game playing and to grow up. I am not the only one that is sick of her entitled ways. I am so glad I called her out on her shit and stood up for myself. She is now the one out in the cold.

Op, each post of yours is better than the last!

+1 keep them coming. Glad your family is on your side and happy Easter!

[Anonymous]

I agree with the PPs! Great updates! Keep us posted!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the PPs! Great updates! Keep us posted!

Completely agree! You're awesome OP, have a great holiday.

[Anonymous]

What is happening

[Anonymous]

Thinking of you, OP. Hope things went relatively drama free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thinking of you, OP. Hope things went relatively drama free.

Stop lying, we're all hoping for more juicy drama mmm...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thinking of you, OP. Hope things went relatively drama free.

Stop lying, we're all hoping for more juicy drama mmm...

Ha! What I want to hear isn't that the family dumped on sis, and she had a come to Jesus moment (meaning she recognizes her bad behavior). Will I enjoy more sister zaniness? Sure, but really, I feel for OP.

[Anonymous]

I like how your DH thinks. Your sister has no boundaries. It's not her place to invite people. Who cares if they have nowhere to go? Are they homeless? This is not Thanksgiving.

[Anonymous]

Isn't should be is

[Anonymous]

OP here,

I wish I could come here and post that everything went great and there was no tension but I cannot. My sister ended up coming to the easter lunch even though she told me twice she was not. She did not bring her friends but she brought some of her inlaws (extra 5 people). The bitch told me with a smile on her face that she stuck to my rule of only family being in attendance. I could tell the bitch wanted me to tell her inlaws to leave. I could feel it. I have nothing against her inlaws. They are very nice and I know some people on here might not approve but I welcomed them. I was not going to do what my sister wanted and cause a scene. I would have had no problem doing it with her friends but I was not going to do it with her inlaws.

With her "tribe" there was a total of 11 people. She did not bring a damn thing. Not even one egg. She did not help setup anything or clean up.

I avoided her and did not my best not to strangle her. One of the best parts is when the bitches husband said grace. He talked about Jesus and how he helped people in all walks of life. He loved everyone and it's a blessing that even if someone feels alone and has no where to go they can turn to him. There are those he said that are less fortunate those that have the means should open up their hearts. I know that asshole was taking a jab at me and my husband. I am 100% sure of it. My husband called him out later on when they were alone and told him that was a bitchy thing to do. He denied, denied, denied. He told him not to get involved in his wifes BS because he was just going to end up looking like a fool just like her.

I got the last dig in and as everyone was loading up I asked bitch if I could talk to her alone real quick. I thanked her with a big smile on my face for being so obedient to my wishes and not bringing her friends. I told her it was a pleasure having her inlaws and I once again thanked her for obeying me and keeping it family only. I then told her it was okay that she could leave now and was dismissed. OMG I think she wanted to punch me. I wish she would have so I could have her arrested. I spoke with my brother and he said also noticed the prayer jabs and that we probably should not include them in family gatherings for the time being. He suggested there could be something mentally wrong with her and her husband. I think he could be right.

[Anonymous]

1. Why on earth did anyone allow BIL to say grace? That was bad move #1.
2. Please tell me you didn't actually use the word "obey" when talking to your sister. If so, I can see why there's friction. Obey is what you teach a dog or small child to do, not adults. "Thank you for respecting me wishes" is a much better way to phrase it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I wish I could come here and post that everything went great and there was no tension but I cannot. My sister ended up coming to the easter lunch even though she told me twice she was not. She did not bring her friends but she brought some of her inlaws (extra 5 people). The bitch told me with a smile on her face that she stuck to my rule of only family being in attendance. I could tell the bitch wanted me to tell her inlaws to leave. I could feel it. I have nothing against her inlaws. They are very nice and I know some people on here might not approve but I welcomed them. I was not going to do what my sister wanted and cause a scene. I would have had no problem doing it with her friends but I was not going to do it with her inlaws.

With her "tribe" there was a total of 11 people. She did not bring a damn thing. Not even one egg. She did not help setup anything or clean up.

I avoided her and did not my best not to strangle her. One of the best parts is when the bitches husband said grace. He talked about Jesus and how he helped people in all walks of life. He loved everyone and it's a blessing that even if someone feels alone and has no where to go they can turn to him. There are those he said that are less fortunate those that have the means should open up their hearts. I know that asshole was taking a jab at me and my husband. I am 100% sure of it. My husband called him out later on when they were alone and told him that was a bitchy thing to do. He denied, denied, denied. He told him not to get involved in his wifes BS because he was just going to end up looking like a fool just like her.

I got the last dig in and as everyone was loading up I asked bitch if I could talk to her alone real quick. I thanked her with a big smile on my face for being so obedient to my wishes and not bringing her friends. I told her it was a pleasure having her inlaws and I once again thanked her for obeying me and keeping it family only. I then told her it was okay that she could leave now and was dismissed. OMG I think she wanted to punch me. I wish she would have so I could have her arrested. I spoke with my brother and he said also noticed the prayer jabs and that we probably should not include them in family gatherings for the time being. He suggested there could be something mentally wrong with her and her husband. I think he could be right.

Well played OP!

[Anonymous]

Too much drama. See a therapist. You sound unhinged.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Why on earth did anyone allow BIL to say grace? That was bad move #1.
2. Please tell me you didn't actually use the word "obey" when talking to your sister. If so, I can see why there's friction. Obey is what you teach a dog or small child to do, not adults. "Thank you for respecting me wishes" is a much better way to phrase it.

Of course I used the word obey. I meant to talk down to her and be condescending. I was hoping she would lose her shit.