sister is giving me an aneurysm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can't believe your sister and her Bible beating friends participate in Easter egg hunts! Don't they know the pagan origins of it?

Exactly. Ignorant losers.

[Anonymous]

So are you still calling her friends? Pile on the shame.

[Anonymous]

So she was providing all the egg hunt items anyway and you invited other family to come?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So she was providing all the egg hunt items anyway and you invited other family to come?

It sounds like it was a family Easter egg hunt from the start that the sister asked the OP to host. The OP was providing the venue and the food, and it looks like her sister was bringing the actual items for the hunt. OP was clear from the beginning about who wasn't welcome; the sister should've listened.

[Anonymous]

When she told you that you needed Jesus, you should have told her she needs Emily Post! Guests don’t get to invite other guests to someone else’s home. I’d call her friends immediately and tell them she was mistaken and this is a family event.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know how you would have all her friends numbers, especially if u r not friends. I have none of my siblings friends numbers. Either way, it’s her job to disinvite, not yours as she is the one who extended the invites, not you. I wouldn’t hesitate to answer the door to any of her friends and apologize and state that it’s family only and have a nice Easter and shut the door. Now you know your sister is a boundary pusher and to beware for next time.

[Anonymous]

Hopefully she won't go ahead and show up with these people just to try and put you on the spot, OP. She sounds like the kind of person who would. Good luck, and I hope it ends up being a fun day with family. If she doesn't show, don't worry about her. She'll come back around when she needs something.

[Anonymous]

Any update?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know how you would have all her friends numbers, especially if u r not friends. I have none of my siblings friends numbers. Either way, it’s her job to disinvite, not yours as she is the one who extended the invites, not you. I wouldn’t hesitate to answer the door to any of her friends and apologize and state that it’s family only and have a nice Easter and shut the door. Now you know your sister is a boundary pusher and to beware for next time.

Sounds like sis has done similar things before, and OP has learned over time that she and sis's friends are a poor match. Hence, she knows them and has/can find their contact information.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hopefully she won't go ahead and show up with these people just to try and put you on the spot, OP. She sounds like the kind of person who would. Good luck, and I hope it ends up being a fun day with family. If she doesn't show, don't worry about her. She'll come back around when she needs something.

Only if she thinks she'd be successful. None of my family of friends would do this, because they know I have a spine and would stand up for myself, while causing the most embarrassment for her possible.

"I'm sorry, Mary Magdalene, but I told Sis that we could only host family today. Hold on . . . Sis? Sis? Could you come to the front door? . . . Sis, didn't you tell Mary M that we could only host family this Easter? She says you didn't. How come you didn't tell her?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hopefully she won't go ahead and show up with these people just to try and put you on the spot, OP. She sounds like the kind of person who would. Good luck, and I hope it ends up being a fun day with family. If she doesn't show, don't worry about her. She'll come back around when she needs something.

Only if she thinks she'd be successful. None of my family of friends would do this, because they know I have a spine and would stand up for myself, while causing the most embarrassment for her possible.

"I'm sorry, Mary Magdalene, but I told Sis that we could only host family today. Hold on . . . Sis? Sis? Could you come to the front door? . . . Sis, didn't you tell Mary M that we could only host family this Easter? She says you didn't. How come you didn't tell her?"

Ha!!

[Anonymous]

Cancel the people you invited to your home, lock up the house and take your family out for the day.

[Anonymous]

My sister texted me and said she spoke to her friends and she said to sleep easy they are not coming and neither was she. I responded by "thank you for cleaning up the mess you made". I know catty thing to say.

I thought that was the end of the incident. Not so much. My brother called me and asked me why the location had been moved from my house to our sisters church. I told him about the argument we had and easter lunch was still on at my house. The bitch tried to hijack the party. I messaged the family and told them the easter lunch had not been moved and I hoped to see them. Lets just say they are all relived not to be attending easter at her church. I don't think they would have gone to begin with. She is such a manipulative bitch and not to mention stupid. Did she really think no one would ask questions.

My brother told me he messaged her and said he did not appreciate her game playing and to grow up. I am not the only one that is sick of her entitled ways. I am so glad I called her out on her shit and stood up for myself. She is now the one out in the cold.

[Anonymous]

Good update

[Anonymous]

Let us know how tomorrow goes! Stay strong!