I think I would make a really good mistress

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The world could use alot more willing mistresses like OP. Everybody benefits and gets exactly what they want:
- the mistress gets a man who craves sex, willing to please, and will go home without drama
- the man gets sex
- the man's wife gets to NOT have sex

Win-Win-Win

This, plus in my case, I also get gifts and career advice The mistress thing is the way to go. He never sleeps over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

I was a mistress from age 47 to almost 52. These 30 year old guys can't imagine it; their loss. My AP was 6 years older.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, as a mistress, your job is to satisfy your partner's sexual desires, not your own. Or did you just mean an NSA two way relationship?

Are you on drugs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, as a mistress, your job is to satisfy your partner's sexual desires, not your own. Or did you just mean an NSA two way relationship?

Yeah, she's not talking about mistress in the D/s role.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

When I was 35 I had an affair with a 42 yo mother of 4, and it was the most scorchingly hot sex I've ever had.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me start by saying I have never been one and don't plan on being one. However, the position of mistress really would suit me well in the sense of me being low maintenance and needing any equally low maintenance man. I was married for 20 years and that shit drained the life out of me. I was always tired and I was always stressed. I am two years into my divorce and the happiest I have ever been. The one thing I can honestly say I miss is the consistent sex. I truly have no desire to share my life with another person (at least not right now). I can afford my own bills and my number one goal is for him to go home afterwards. I would never cause trouble for him at home due to the fact that I do not want him as my responsibility. Again, I've been in a forever relationship, so I know what all it entails. Although I hate the word "mistress" the job description is kinda up my alley. And nope, my self esteem is totally intact!

you have to target men twice your age

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

When I was 35 I had an affair with a 42 yo mother of 4, and it was the most scorchingly hot sex I've ever had.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

I bet the troll saying you are too old is a chubby 55 year old single MRA who thinks the world owes him an easy life and a 19 year old submissive girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:+1

America's expectations for decades of monogamy are dumb.

Stupid thing to say.

Yeah, no it’s not. Getting herpes/AIDS/gonnorrhea/HPV etc is actually a serious matter. Sure, there condoms are widely available but still these issues persist, as do unplanned pregnancies.

Children don’t thrive when mommy and daddy are out of the house porking someone else either.


After a woman is pregnant she retains some of the mans DNA via retaining some of the baby’s dna :

https://geneticliteracyproject.org/2014/10/21/women-carry-fetal-dna-long-after-childrens-birth/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/16084184/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

When I was 35 I had an affair with a 42 yo mother of 4, and it was the most scorchingly hot sex I've ever had.

Gross.

[Anonymous]

You sound ideal. Call me.

- wealthy, attractive 42 year old married man who travels to amazing destinations for work and whose wife isn't interested in sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound ideal. Call me.

- wealthy, attractive 42 year old married man who travels to amazing destinations for work and whose wife isn't interested in sex.

What did you do to make her uninterested in sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound ideal. Call me.

- wealthy, attractive 42 year old married man who travels to amazing destinations for work and whose wife isn't interested in sex.

What did you do to make her uninterested in sex?

Why, he got married. Instant lady boner killer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

When I was 35 I had an affair with a 42 yo mother of 4, and it was the most scorchingly hot sex I've ever had.

Nice. When I was 38 and a mother of 4 I had an affair with a hot looking 25-year-old. The sex was disappointing. I would up with a man 6 years older than me and the sex was amazing. Hot sex does not require a young partner.

[Anonymous]

OP, you don't have to be a mistress to see a man once or twice a week and to sleep along most of the nights. My BF and I are both single, both child-free and we date for over 17 years now. We are very involved in each other lives, but we don't live together since both of us have huge requirements for a personal space.
BF-GF relationship is much more stable than mistress-married man arrangement, which can take a wrong turn at any point of time and you lose a man whom you are emotionally attached to due to complications with his marriage - wife finds out about your relationship, for example.