I think I would make a really good mistress

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married men who are repetitive cheaters look for women closer to their age. They don't have to worry about them getting pregnant and there is a big emotional component to the cheating. They want someone that they can talk to and understand them. Many times, the mistresses are accomplished, intelligent women. The pregnancy thing is a big component. Why risk it when you don't have too.

My tubes are tied and I do not like condoms

You do sound like a perfect candidate for an affair. I suspected that condom usage was a big factor in the appeal for a married man. Single men are riskier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married men who are repetitive cheaters look for women closer to their age. They don't have to worry about them getting pregnant and there is a big emotional component to the cheating. They want someone that they can talk to and understand them. Many times, the mistresses are accomplished, intelligent women. The pregnancy thing is a big component. Why risk it when you don't have too.

My tubes are tied and I do not like condoms

You do sound like a perfect candidate for an affair. I suspected that condom usage was a big factor in the appeal for a married man. Single men are riskier.

Yeah, 'cause married men would never "cheat" on their mistresses, right?

[Anonymous]

You're too old, unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, let me start by saying I have never been one and don't plan on being one. However, the position of mistress really would suit me well in the sense of me being low maintenance and needing any equally low maintenance man. I was married for 20 years and that shit drained the life out of me. I was always tired and I was always stressed. I am two years into my divorce and the happiest I have ever been. The one thing I can honestly say I miss is the consistent sex. I truly have no desire to share my life with another person (at least not right now). I can afford my own bills and my number one goal is for him to go home afterwards. I would never cause trouble for him at home due to the fact that I do not want him as my responsibility. Again, I've been in a forever relationship, so I know what all it entails. Although I hate the word "mistress" the job description is kinda up my alley. And nope, my self esteem is totally intact!

LOL... No thank you. I doubt the demand for grandma as a mistress is that high.

I got married young. I’m 40

Still.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a friend of mine who is in fact a mistress. Normally I have utter disdain for mistresses, but with my friend, she is zero thread to her AP's family because she basically doesn't' want a real relationship. An affair is just enough connection to keep her happy without the give-and-take and time commitment of a real relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a friend of mine who is in fact a mistress. Normally I have utter disdain for mistresses, but with my friend, she is zero thread to her AP's family because she basically doesn't' want a real relationship. An affair is just enough connection to keep her happy without the give-and-take and time commitment of a real relationship.

Oh, and my friend is 42 year old VP with global travel 50% of the time. No one seems to think she is too old. Not my life choice, but just thought I'd provide a counter example to the idea that OP is too old. My friend's AP is 50, rich, and actually quite hot. For some reason his wife stopped banging him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You are looking at it all wrong but you sound really damaged so my expectation of you understanding why your plan would never work are so low I won't go into it.

The best thing to get what you want is to date single men but say that you are married.

Married men are do high maintenance, they have such low self esteem they constantly need their egos stroked and they will rarely pay for anything.

Single men dating married women are just the right kind of guy you want he will bang you on the regular and never want to be with you long term. He does not have the stress of get caughtbbut thinks he is getting the milk for free, men love that.

Don't do this. What if OP ends up falling in love?

What if 2 single people fall in love?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You are looking at it all wrong but you sound really damaged so my expectation of you understanding why your plan would never work are so low I won't go into it.

The best thing to get what you want is to date single men but say that you are married.

Married men are do high maintenance, they have such low self esteem they constantly need their egos stroked and they will rarely pay for anything.

Single men dating married women are just the right kind of guy you want he will bang you on the regular and never want to be with you long term. He does not have the stress of get caughtbbut thinks he is getting the milk for free, men love that.

Great analysis from a seasoned ho!

It's ho for 2 single people to date. What kind of childhood abuse did you undergo to see the world that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a friend of mine who is in fact a mistress. Normally I have utter disdain for mistresses, but with my friend, she is zero thread to her AP's family because she basically doesn't' want a real relationship. An affair is just enough connection to keep her happy without the give-and-take and time commitment of a real relationship.

Oh, and my friend is 42 year old VP with global travel 50% of the time. No one seems to think she is too old. Not my life choice, but just thought I'd provide a counter example to the idea that OP is too old. My friend's AP is 50, rich, and actually quite hot. For some reason his wife stopped banging him.

You believe that? ALL the cheaters claim that their wife doesn't have sex with them. Total BS. You seem very gullible. Plus, you don't know about his STDs - i *guarantee* that!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a friend of mine who is in fact a mistress. Normally I have utter disdain for mistresses, but with my friend, she is zero thread to her AP's family because she basically doesn't' want a real relationship. An affair is just enough connection to keep her happy without the give-and-take and time commitment of a real relationship.

Oh, and my friend is 42 year old VP with global travel 50% of the time. No one seems to think she is too old. Not my life choice, but just thought I'd provide a counter example to the idea that OP is too old. My friend's AP is 50, rich, and actually quite hot. For some reason his wife stopped banging him.

You believe that? ALL the cheaters claim that their wife doesn't have sex with them. Total BS. You seem very gullible. Plus, you don't know about his STDs - i *guarantee* that!

I might be gullible. I live a boring monogamous life and like it that way

[Anonymous]

Op here, The comments about age don’t phase me at all, so it really is whatever to the commenters who keep bringing it up. You won’t realize how sexy 40 is until you get there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a friend of mine who is in fact a mistress. Normally I have utter disdain for mistresses, but with my friend, she is zero thread to her AP's family because she basically doesn't' want a real relationship. An affair is just enough connection to keep her happy without the give-and-take and time commitment of a real relationship.

This is why the word mistress bugs me so much. I view a traditional mistress as a woman who patiently waits for a man to be free from his wife so she can be next in line for him. Catering to him and manipulating him into leaving his family. Hell no— totally not me. I also would not want to be the cause of another woman’s hurt. To the pp who mentioned something along the lines of screwing with a married man as more safe, yes, that is my logic. I view a single man as more high risk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're too old, unfortunately.

No, she's not.

But you are too young, arrogant and stupid to recognize that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a friend of mine who is in fact a mistress. Normally I have utter disdain for mistresses, but with my friend, she is zero thread to her AP's family because she basically doesn't' want a real relationship. An affair is just enough connection to keep her happy without the give-and-take and time commitment of a real relationship.

This is why the word mistress bugs me so much. I view a traditional mistress as a woman who patiently waits for a man to be free from his wife so she can be next in line for him. Catering to him and manipulating him into leaving his family. Hell no— totally not me. I also would not want to be the cause of another woman’s hurt. To the pp who mentioned something along the lines of screwing with a married man as more safe, yes, that is my logic. I view a single man as more high risk.

Gullible

[Anonymous]

OP, as a mistress, your job is to satisfy your partner's sexual desires, not your own. Or did you just mean an NSA two way relationship?