OP here. I understand. I am trying to balance making her aware of opportunities and that there are multiple paths one can take to get there. |
Atlanta is a giant soulless suburb filled with very average people. |
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OP, your questions and comments have been exceptionally thoughtful. Your DD will benefit.
My personal prejudice tends towards brand-names. That would argue in favor of Tulane, from your current list. You may find a few surprise reach-offers, given your DD's very solid statistics (don't be put off by the ceaseless one-upping -- your DD's numbers really are very good). Please do try to bargain more with Tulane if that's an appealing destination. But you have nothing to fear from the UGA honors programs (I use plural because there are several). Good luck - |
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OP here. Thank you - that's very kind of you to say. I figure if I can't help with the money maybe I can help with the strategy. I believe the college application process is a such a great teaching and learning opportunity. I have already expressed that there is going to be disappointment in the process and that it will sting but that's part of life and if you never experience disappointment well then you are not really trying at this thing called life. I also believe that there will be, or there is a good chance that there will be, an offer that we had discounted or had deemed unlikely that may very well help make the decision for us. Or I guess that's what I am hoping given DD's hard work. It's been amazing to watch. |
I wouldn’t take that point. Tulane has an honors program, so does pretty much every single state school in the US. |
Um, it’s called merit aid and pretty much every school outside the top-25 offers it to top students. You clearly aren’t familiar with the college admissions process, let alone UGA, if you don’t know this and as such it’s probbaly best if you refrain from giving advice. |
Right. My daughter goes there, you don’t. Yet you know better. |
If it’s so great why do they have to bribe smart kids to attend? |
Again...if you are unfamiliar with the concept of merit aid...that probably 95% of colleges in the US offer...I’m not sure this discussion is worth having as you clearly know nothing about even the most basic aspects of college admissions. |
This was entirely my experience as an honors student at UGA. I found my niche, but your daughter is going to face intense pressure to "look" a certain way if she wants to be accepted in many greek organizations. I didn't go through this and opted at doing my own thing, working in a bar and taking classes. I ended up at a top law school and was a gainfully employed biglaw attorney. So YMMV |
OP here. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I don't believe my DD will want to gravitate toward Greek life. I was hoping that given the size of the school she would be able to find her own niche and had hoped that other honor students would form the basis of that niche. How close knit of a group are the honor students ? I had hoped that as there is an honors dorm it would be a bit of its own community. Is that not the case ? Thank you. |
PP here. It is and it isn't. The honors college has a lot of overlap with campus leadership groups like student government and Greek organizations. If anything, I found my own niche working, but I've had friends who were happy in the marching band or got involved with religious groups, which were surprisingly popular. It's a big school and there's something for everyone, but if you are quirky it might take some more digging to find it. It's a good school. I had a good experience, studied abroad, which was encouraged, and interned at a federal agency in DC that actually paid and paid for housing (the Foreign Ag Service). I will say this. It's a big school and if you want to, you can fade into the background and no one will notice or care. If your DD needs help or has a mental health issue, my friends who were in this position had terrible experiences. It's not a hand holding type of place that you might find in a smaller college. |
Uh Pedophile State U is a Big 10 school that should have had its doors closed for a very long time. |
I know - this whole post seems fake. Why would a top student even apply to the University of Georgia? |