Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op - to the posters who kindly suggested I view this for a different perspective, thank you. I appreciate it and I took it to heart. Yes, my kids are younger so I haven’t had to deal with any puberty issues, so I will give him/the benefit of the doubt. I didn’t say anything and I never will.
To the other who were unnecessarily rude. Perhaps you too can learn to be more open minded and structure your responses in a way that will help someone grow and see the world differently. Your posts did nothing but make me dig my heels in more.
It was those who took the time to help me see another perspective to the issue (puberty, my bil’s stress, etc) rather than simply saying I was mean, controlling or anxious, that actually made one small positive impact in the world. And to those people, thank you.
I get what you're saying, but no one "made" you dig your heels in. You chose to do that.