Would you date someone who cheated on an ex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm male and have dated lots of cheaters. In my experience, over the age of 40 every woman is a cheater.

I'm 64 and have NEVER cheated on my husband. I don't think most of my friends have either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm male and have dated lots of cheaters. In my experience, over the age of 40 every woman is a cheater.

I'm 64 and have NEVER cheated on my husband. I don't think most of my friends have either.

You are hanging out with the wrong women. I am 50 and never cheated on my husband, even when he cheated on me and I totally could have cheated on him. I'd never do such a thing because it doesn't fit my values, and I have self-respect and self-control. None of my close friends would or have ever done this either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm male and have dated lots of cheaters. In my experience, over the age of 40 every woman is a cheater.

I'm 64 and have NEVER cheated on my husband. I don't think most of my friends have either.

You are hanging out with the wrong women. I am 50 and never cheated on my husband, even when he cheated on me and I totally could have cheated on him. I'd never do such a thing because it doesn't fit my values, and I have self-respect and self-control. None of my close friends would or have ever done this either.

Here is the problem: you're still married. I am dating divorced or (occasionally) never-married women. Their experiences are different from women who got married young and stayed married.

Now about your close friends: women are great conspirators, and if they did cheat they would never reveal it to you.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm male and have dated lots of cheaters. In my experience, over the age of 40 every woman is a cheater.

I'm 64 and have NEVER cheated on my husband. I don't think most of my friends have either.

You are hanging out with the wrong women. I am 50 and never cheated on my husband, even when he cheated on me and I totally could have cheated on him. I'd never do such a thing because it doesn't fit my values, and I have self-respect and self-control. None of my close friends would or have ever done this either.

Here is the problem: you're still married. I am dating divorced or (occasionally) never-married women. Their experiences are different from women who got married young and stayed married.

Now about your close friends: women are great conspirators, and if they did cheat they would never reveal it to you.

Hahaha. You obvs know nothing about women. My husband at the time cheated on me, but he is, of course, now my ex. Please. I have more self-respect and respect for my kids than to keep ourselves tied to an inveterate liar and cheat.

And, BTW, among women who are close, lifelong friends with each other - well we definitely tell these things.

I'm sorry you have such a warped knowledge of women. Clearly your red pill attitude is affecting the kind of women you end up with.

[Anonymous]

Here is the problem: you're still married. I am dating divorced or (occasionally) never-married women. Their experiences are different from women who got married young and stayed married.

Now about your close friends: women are great conspirators, and if they did cheat they would never reveal it to you.


It looks like you have been deeply hurt by a woman and basically expect all women that are out there now to be the rejects, not quality dating material.

I don't really blame you - I feel the same about men out there after being hurt by my XDH.

However, I am a good person so intellectually I know that there is a man-equivalent out there. My heart just doesn't believe my head and reading DCUM certainly does not help.