Meeting DH's friend for a coffee

[Anonymous]

Why does this looser need to burden you with some story.
Your husband should have already share it. That's what married people do. This sounds exhausting.

Just pass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It goes against the letter and spirit of your marriage vows. Call it off.

Agree. Is it really worth that sip of coffee turning into an eternity sipping from the devil's engorged member in Hell?

maybe she is into that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why does this looser need to burden you with some story.
Your husband should have already share it. That's what married people do. This sounds exhausting.

Just pass.

He is not a looser. In many ways he is a good person who helps many of his friends. I feel it would be really harsh to refuse one thing that he wants from his friends; good listeners. Yes, the story is tedious. I will suggest couple of things to him to move forward from his trauma. I am also not one to listen to something over and over again and he will get that cue from me.
So, I will meet him because he is a good person and I am a good person and that's what good people do. I would never ruin my marriage over meeting with him or his friendship with my husband. In my had, I already sorted things out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why does this looser need to burden you with some story.
Your husband should have already share it. That's what married people do. This sounds exhausting.

Just pass.

He is not a looser. In many ways he is a good person who helps many of his friends. I feel it would be really harsh to refuse one thing that he wants from his friends; good listeners. Yes, the story is tedious. I will suggest couple of things to him to move forward from his trauma. I am also not one to listen to something over and over again and he will get that cue from me.
So, I will meet him because he is a good person and I am a good person and that's what good people do. I would never ruin my marriage over meeting with him or his friendship with my husband. In my had, I already sorted things out.

He wants a good listener and dirty nasty sexytime but mostly dirty nasty sexytime.

[Anonymous]

Don't see a problem with that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Friends? Not sure I even know who he counts as friends, and honestly, the overlap between his friends and mine is shallow. I wouldn't actually want to go out with one of my husband's friends to spend time with them. A few yes, but most are HIS friends. And my friends are MY friends. I get along with his friends (and vice versa) and like them (and vice versa) but I'd rather not spend one on one time with them.

We are the opposite. I can't think of anyone who would be just DH's friends. He has work acquaintances, yes, but that would be people who don't even know me. On the other hand, I've had coffee with at least three male friends recently, some for local business and some just to catch up, and I just don't get OP's concern either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why does this looser need to burden you with some story.
Your husband should have already share it. That's what married people do. This sounds exhausting.

Just pass.

He is not a looser. In many ways he is a good person who helps many of his friends. I feel it would be really harsh to refuse one thing that he wants from his friends; good listeners. Yes, the story is tedious. I will suggest couple of things to him to move forward from his trauma. I am also not one to listen to something over and over again and he will get that cue from me.
So, I will meet him because he is a good person and I am a good person and that's what good people do. I would never ruin my marriage over meeting with him or his friendship with my husband. In my had, I already sorted things out.

He wants a good listener and dirty nasty sexytime but mostly dirty nasty sexytime.

Not everyone is perverted. There are some decent people outthere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No he's your friend. Are you worried he's going to proposition you?

Not worried about that at all; I am overweight. Just wondering what other's think of that or if they would meet up with a family friend of an opposite sex alone.

So overweight girls are incapable of cheating or getting male attention is what youre saying?