+1. Very few people in this country understand the blacklisting public schools have gotten in the name of privatization, when the core problem has always been, and will always be, poverty. No matter how much we test kids, cut recess, or fire teachers, the rich kids will always do better than the poor ones. But it's easier to pretend poverty doesn't exist than work to make an equal society, especially in a society as individualistic as ours. |
NP here but I agree that the issue is our country expects public schools to solve all the problems of poverty. |
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We've moved away from DC but I still keep up with the forum. It's not unusual where I am to redshirt kids, especially boys but a few girls too.
My DS has a girl in his class who not only has an August birthday (on the older side) but is also highly gifted and mature. It's very obvious that she is in the wrong grade. We have another friend who redshirted her son (for a May birthday)-- he's does not stand out as immature. Also, his dad was a college football player and this kid is already much bigger than my taller than average son who is one grade up. I know in some cases there are reasons--but the cases I'm aware of are "gaming the system" for grades, leadership, and athletics. |
A January birthday with a 9/30 or 9/1 cutoff as we have in VA and MD would be middle of the pack. Younger than all the Oct, Nov, Dec kids and the Sept kids if you have a 9/1 cutoff, AND also younger than the summer birthday kids who started late. The kid would turn 6 midway through K and would turn 18 midway through senior year of high school. That's pretty normal. |
It's not an extra 20k for an extra year of PK. Our (very good) PK is $1200/month. Public K is not "free" - you have to figure in after care and vacations (at least 5k for the school year). So for a 10-month school year, the extra cost of staying in PK is more like 6-7K. That's not an amount I would be overjoyed to pay, but it's doable for a lot of people. |
I'm a bleeding heart liberal but I hope we are not using public tax dollars to pay for an extra year of public preschool for redshirted kids without documented learning disabilities |
NP, you would think, but my January kid was the 2nd youngest in NOVA elementary class last year. |
Insane! |
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Anecdotally, of course, but my parents put me in K at 4 years and 4 months, sort of the opposite of redshirting. (They got a private school to do it, kept me in K and 1 and then MoCo public schools allowed me to transfer in seamlessly.) I can see both advantages and disadvantages for myself... disadvantages mostly in sports... but academically, I then went into gifted programs, where there were also a lot of kids who had skipped grades and were closer to my age.
I feel like there are studies on both sides of this in the past few years-- all showing "small but significant" advantages. Really seems like it's down to the individuals and he school system. |
Yup. My DC has an early March birthday and should be almost literally in the middle. In fact, it looks like she will be well among the youngest. |
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The backside of the redshirting trend in a few years will be the rise of the 20-year-old HS senior.
The parents I know who redshirted haven't even thought about this. |
I don't understand how that could happen? If I started my August birthday boy in K late, he would be 18 all of his senior year of high school and would turn 19 right before freshman year of college. Even if he was born in say, February, he would turn 19 midway through senior year and 20 midway through freshman year of college. The kid would have to be held back 2 years to turn 20 in high school. |
We redshirted my late Aug son. He turned 6 a few days kindergarten started. He will be 17 when he starts his senior year and turn 18 a few days later. He will be 18 for the next 365 days which will include HS graduation. He won't be 19 during high school. Or 20. Math isn't your strong suit, eh? |
Because this doesn't happen. At worst, kids who were redshirted and spring bdays and earlier will be 19 towards the end of the school year. You should recheck your math. |
Agree that a 20 year old HS senior is not likely, unless a kid was red-shirted and then held back a year. I work with college students and a year of extra maturity on the back end is not a bad thing, imo. Not advocating for red shirting, just saying I'm not sure why having a 19 year old senior in high school would be such a terrible thing. |