Is my sis being passive agressive or am I too sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, you're like my sister who has no kids, doesn't host anyone, doesn't visit anyone, and then will claim she was "too busy" or "didn't have time" to shop. I don't even care if she gets my kids anything but seriously don't act like you had less time than your sister who has a 2 yo did. You just didn't want to wrap which is fine. Quit making it sound like you're some victim here.

It's not that hard to have a two year old.

+1

I feel very sorry for the 2 year old who has such a martyr for a mother. That and the sister who has a life that said martyr clearly resents.

+2 : )

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In the future, Amazon gift wrapping.

Amazon won't gift wrap everything. I bought a gift for niece this year and hoped to send to their house gift-wrapped, but the item wasn't available for gift-wrapping. It wasn't a particularly large or weird-shaped item either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, you're like my sister who has no kids, doesn't host anyone, doesn't visit anyone, and then will claim she was "too busy" or "didn't have time" to shop. I don't even care if she gets my kids anything but seriously don't act like you had less time than your sister who has a 2 yo did. You just didn't want to wrap which is fine. Quit making it sound like you're some victim here.

It's not that hard to have a two year old.

Said no parent ever.

Right?! Mom of a 2y/o here whose head is just spinning with all the shit I have to do this year. Add baking cookies and figuring out tips for daycare teachers to shopping for gifts for a gazillion relatives, trying to wrap said gifts with toddler/pet level chaos all around me, traveling with toddler/pets, etc. etc. etc. Somehow it was easier last year. Not easy, but easier.

All the shit you "have to do"? Uh, shopping, baking cookies, wrapping gifts. . . sounds like life choices you are making and then resentful about.

[Anonymous]

Nah, it's your guilt talking to your head. She's being OK. Let it go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, you're like my sister who has no kids, doesn't host anyone, doesn't visit anyone, and then will claim she was "too busy" or "didn't have time" to shop. I don't even care if she gets my kids anything but seriously don't act like you had less time than your sister who has a 2 yo did. You just didn't want to wrap which is fine. Quit making it sound like you're some victim here.

OP here. This is what I think my sister thinks!!

Well is it true?