What's up with teen girls these days?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I think that what a lot of teenagers don't understand is that there is clinical anxiety (not normal) and then there is the feeling of being anxious, which is a normal part of life. Some people may be more prone to feeling anxious (myself included, I have always been a perfectionist, type A person) but that doesn't mean that they have a clinical anxiety disorder. I do think that it is a smart idea to talk to teenagers about how they can deal with normal feelings of anxiety in a healthy way without overreacting.

On another note, I do think social media is having a detrimental effect on teenagers (particularly girls). Although it is fun and makes it easy to keep up with friends and family, I think there's an inherent sense of competition and striving for the perfection that people portray on social media that isn't good for young females to grow up with. Prime example of this is the instagram account "AmberFillerup" I see so many young girls commenting on her posts saying how she is "#goalz" and young teenagers may not realize how fake these social media celebrities' lives actually are.

Read a really interesting book about this over the summer: https://www.amazon.com/American-Girls-Social-Secret-Teenagers/dp/0385353928



I definitely agree. A lot of anxiety disorders are misunderstood. Take OCD. I've met people that have self-diagnosed themselves (all in seriousness) with OCD because they're self proclaimed perfectionists that love cleaning - a far cry from the actual thing. Education and awareness are important in these kids, and adults alike.

Funny you mention one of the few big instagrammers I'm aware of. Amber has gotten lip injections and lots of Botox, and her parenting frankly seems inadequate for her young children. But she has nice clothes, lots of makeup, and travels the world, portraying her life as something unrealistic that girls should "aspire to."


PP here. I could go on about Amber allll day!! She should probably have her own thread on here lol
Anonymous
It's not just teen girls: life expectancy is down in the US, partly because of the "diseases of despair" (alcoholism, overdose, suicide) affecting middle-aged white men and women.

Given that, I have to ask: what on earth is the downside of taking young women seriously when they discuss their distress?

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