Mom leaves her baby in the car at daycare pickup wwyd?

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Anonymous wrote:Who are these posters?!? I am completely blown away.

Tell the center.

Poster. Same nutbag on most threads that shows up and vehemently argues against the logical response and tries to paint the OP as a horrible person.

Actually several people are responding here, but if it makes you feel better to think you are right (superior) and all the other people are wrong, sit there on that high horse. Don't get a nose bleed.

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Anonymous wrote:I can see not wanting to wake up a sleeping baby (for all we know this may be the FIRST time that baby had closed its eyes in hours and she wasn't willing to mess with that) for two mins.

Like others said, if you are there every day and able to see her do this every day then you are able to be of assistance in some way other than tattling to authorities and making problems for her. If you just saw her this one time, you should STFU because you sound like a real bitch in this thread.

And yet, you are the person coming on here and using foul language.

So? You ARE being a bitch in your responses here and you know it. HELP this woman, just as someone likely has or will/would help you. Be a better person. Try that and see if you might not have a better attitude and life.

It isn't helpful to take on a responsibility that you don't want and may not have time for yourself. Op already has "helped" this woman by keeping an eye on her car (and sleeping child) while the woman dashed in to get her oldest. If this was a one time thing, NBD. But this lady is making this a habit and Op doesn't want the job of hanging around watching this lady's car/baby.

Who watches the car if Op is sick or on vacation or has an appt to get to ASAP?

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I'm really surprised by the responses. I would tell the daycare and then myob. If I happened to be doing drop off or pick up at the same time I would watch from my car until she returned but the expectation that OP coordinate her schedule with this mom is ridiculous. It is not okay to leave your baby in a car! I only do it if I am in my own driveway.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm really surprised by the responses. I would tell the daycare and then myob. If I happened to be doing drop off or pick up at the same time I would watch from my car until she returned but the expectation that OP coordinate her schedule with this mom is ridiculous. It is not okay to leave your baby in a car! I only do it if I am in my own driveway.

What makes your driveway inherently more safe than a daycare center? It's a false security.

OP - mind your own business. This woman has made a calculation that leaving a sleeping baby for 2 minutes is an acceptable risk, just as you have decided that letting your child ride in a car at all is an acceptable level of risk.

She's not doing anything wrong, and you need to butt out.

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Anonymous wrote:I can see not wanting to wake up a sleeping baby (for all we know this may be the FIRST time that baby had closed its eyes in hours and she wasn't willing to mess with that) for two mins.

Like others said, if you are there every day and able to see her do this every day then you are able to be of assistance in some way other than tattling to authorities and making problems for her. If you just saw her this one time, you should STFU because you sound like a real bitch in this thread.

And yet, you are the person coming on here and using foul language.

So? You ARE being a bitch in your responses here and you know it. HELP this woman, just as someone likely has or will/would help you. Be a better person. Try that and see if you might not have a better attitude and life.

I'm not helping her out. Not planning on it. Not sorry. Watching your head explode about this is pretty funny though.

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She is leaving a sleeping baby in an air conditioned car that is almost certainly locked for two minutes. And you people want to call the police? Y'all are a bunch of loons.

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Anonymous wrote:Title says it all- there's a mom who has a napping baby in the car while she picks up her kid from daycare. She has to enter the building, go around the corner, sign out the kid, and get back to the car. Car is running. There isn't normally space right out front-but it's not a far walk. I timed it-child is unaccompanied in the car for about two minutes. Say something? Or MYOB.

Since you have the time to time her while she's away from the car, Why don't you ask her if she'd like for you to stay at the car and watch her sleeping baby while she runs in to grab her kid? That would probably be the best way to help out a fellow parent who appears to be juggling conpeting schedules for her kids.

OP, you could learn a lot from this poster and 00:27, who both came at this situation from a compassionate, helpful angle.

Too bad you are too self-absorbed to listen to them.

Are you really suggesting that I coordinate my daily schedule with this women so I can stand by her car for two extra minutes every day?

You're missing the point. You immediately think about how you can get this woman in trouble (timing her? Really?). A good person, like the PPs, would ask first how they can help this woman. Shame on you.

You're missing the point. I'm not timing her to get her in trouble. I'm timing her to make sure the baby isn't alone in a car for an unreasonable amount of time. And I'm not trying to "get her in trouble". Please grow up. I'm trying to gauge whether this behavior is sufficiently risky that I should raise it with her or have the center raise it with her. And I can't reorganize my life to make sure I coincide with her at daycare so I can stand by her car or check out her child (which would not even be permissible). So please stop obsessing about this-it's not going to happen.

OP You are being a bitch. MYOB. The baby is FINE, but you are an ass.

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Mind your own friggin' business, you nosy busybody.

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Anonymous wrote:Title says it all- there's a mom who has a napping baby in the car while she picks up her kid from daycare. She has to enter the building, go around the corner, sign out the kid, and get back to the car. Car is running. There isn't normally space right out front-but it's not a far walk. I timed it-child is unaccompanied in the car for about two minutes. Say something? Or MYOB.

Since you have the time to time her while she's away from the car, Why don't you ask her if she'd like for you to stay at the car and watch her sleeping baby while she runs in to grab her kid? That would probably be the best way to help out a fellow parent who appears to be juggling conpeting schedules for her kids.

OP, you could learn a lot from this poster and 00:27, who both came at this situation from a compassionate, helpful angle.

Too bad you are too self-absorbed to listen to them.

Are you really suggesting that I coordinate my daily schedule with this women so I can stand by her car for two extra minutes every day?

You're missing the point. You immediately think about how you can get this woman in trouble (timing her? Really?). A good person, like the PPs, would ask first how they can help this woman. Shame on you.

You're missing the point. I'm not timing her to get her in trouble. I'm timing her to make sure the baby isn't alone in a car for an unreasonable amount of time. And I'm not trying to "get her in trouble". Please grow up. I'm trying to gauge whether this behavior is sufficiently risky that I should raise it with her or have the center raise it with her. And I can't reorganize my life to make sure I coincide with her at daycare so I can stand by her car or check out her child (which would not even be permissible). So please stop obsessing about this-it's not going to happen.

Backpedal, rewrite, deflect, backpedal some more...

Or...just read my post where I said EXACTLY that.

"I don't want to spend my free time helping her out."

That's right, I don't. If you had bothered to read further you will also see why I timed her and it was not to "get her in trouble". I have my own family to take care of. I'm interested in the welfare of the kid, not interested in becoming part of her village, nor is it realistic. I guess the question, since I have to spell it out for dense and obsessive people like yourself is GOING FORWARD should I raise it with her/the center. Since, as previously noted, I cannot time my entire life to meet her at daycare and stand by her car.

But you have plenty of time to mind her business for her. The baby will be fine, but you need some psych help.

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Anonymous wrote:Title says it all- there's a mom who has a napping baby in the car while she picks up her kid from daycare. She has to enter the building, go around the corner, sign out the kid, and get back to the car. Car is running. There isn't normally space right out front-but it's not a far walk. I timed it-child is unaccompanied in the car for about two minutes. Say something? Or MYOB.

Since you have the time to time her while she's away from the car, Why don't you ask her if she'd like for you to stay at the car and watch her sleeping baby while she runs in to grab her kid? That would probably be the best way to help out a fellow parent who appears to be juggling conpeting schedules for her kids.

OP, you could learn a lot from this poster and 00:27, who both came at this situation from a compassionate, helpful angle.

Too bad you are too self-absorbed to listen to them.

Are you really suggesting that I coordinate my daily schedule with this women so I can stand by her car for two extra minutes every day?

You're missing the point. You immediately think about how you can get this woman in trouble (timing her? Really?). A good person, like the PPs, would ask first how they can help this woman. Shame on you.

You're missing the point. I'm not timing her to get her in trouble. I'm timing her to make sure the baby isn't alone in a car for an unreasonable amount of time. And I'm not trying to "get her in trouble". Please grow up. I'm trying to gauge whether this behavior is sufficiently risky that I should raise it with her or have the center raise it with her. And I can't reorganize my life to make sure I coincide with her at daycare so I can stand by her car or check out her child (which would not even be permissible). So please stop obsessing about this-it's not going to happen.

OP You are being a bitch. MYOB. The baby is FINE, but you are an ass.

"HELP THIS WOMAN! HELP HER!" I'm LMAO at you!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm really surprised by the responses. I would tell the daycare and then myob. If I happened to be doing drop off or pick up at the same time I would watch from my car until she returned but the expectation that OP coordinate her schedule with this mom is ridiculous. It is not okay to leave your baby in a car! I only do it if I am in my own driveway.

What makes your driveway inherently more safe than a daycare center? It's a false security.

OP - mind your own business. This woman has made a calculation that leaving a sleeping baby for 2 minutes is an acceptable risk, just as you have decided that letting your child ride in a car at all is an acceptable level of risk.

She's not doing anything wrong, and you need to butt out.

The difference between a private driveway and a daycare center's parking lot is - ownership. You own your own driveway while the daycare center owns the center parking lot. The owner gets to make the rules.

I used to leave my kids strapped in their seats in the driveway while I ran in/out of the house unloading groceries. Why? Because they were either sleeping or I needed for them to be contained for a few minutes while I ran groceries inside the house. I didn't have a garage...so the car was parked in my driveway. I suppose I could have taken the kids inside, put them in a playpen to scream or let them run around freely and unsupervised while I unloaded the groceries but what sense would that make?

I suppose some sort of freak car jacking could have happened. But something easily as freakish could have happened if I took the kids inside the house - maybe the house could have exploded into flames while I was unloading the groceries from the car....ugh. People do not understand risk.

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Anonymous wrote:Mind your own friggin' business, you nosy busybody.

Wait now I'm confused. Am I supposed to HELP THIS WOMAN! Help her! Or mind my own business?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who are these posters?!? I am completely blown away.

Tell the center.

Poster. Same nutbag on most threads that shows up and vehemently argues against the logical response and tries to paint the OP as a horrible person.

Actually several people are responding here, but if it makes you feel better to think you are right (superior) and all the other people are wrong, sit there on that high horse. Don't get a nose bleed.

LOL. Pot me kettle.

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Anonymous wrote:Title says it all- there's a mom who has a napping baby in the car while she picks up her kid from daycare. She has to enter the building, go around the corner, sign out the kid, and get back to the car. Car is running. There isn't normally space right out front-but it's not a far walk. I timed it-child is unaccompanied in the car for about two minutes. Say something? Or MYOB.

Since you have the time to time her while she's away from the car, Why don't you ask her if she'd like for you to stay at the car and watch her sleeping baby while she runs in to grab her kid? That would probably be the best way to help out a fellow parent who appears to be juggling conpeting schedules for her kids.

OP, you could learn a lot from this poster and 00:27, who both came at this situation from a compassionate, helpful angle.

Too bad you are too self-absorbed to listen to them.

Are you really suggesting that I coordinate my daily schedule with this women so I can stand by her car for two extra minutes every day?

You're missing the point. You immediately think about how you can get this woman in trouble (timing her? Really?). A good person, like the PPs, would ask first how they can help this woman. Shame on you.

You're missing the point. I'm not timing her to get her in trouble. I'm timing her to make sure the baby isn't alone in a car for an unreasonable amount of time. And I'm not trying to "get her in trouble". Please grow up. I'm trying to gauge whether this behavior is sufficiently risky that I should raise it with her or have the center raise it with her. And I can't reorganize my life to make sure I coincide with her at daycare so I can stand by her car or check out her child (which would not even be permissible). So please stop obsessing about this-it's not going to happen.

OP You are being a bitch. MYOB. The baby is FINE, but you are an ass.

You have a few screws loose if you think the OP is the one with a problem here.

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Anonymous wrote:Title says it all- there's a mom who has a napping baby in the car while she picks up her kid from daycare. She has to enter the building, go around the corner, sign out the kid, and get back to the car. Car is running. There isn't normally space right out front-but it's not a far walk. I timed it-child is unaccompanied in the car for about two minutes. Say something? Or MYOB.

Since you have the time to time her while she's away from the car, Why don't you ask her if she'd like for you to stay at the car and watch her sleeping baby while she runs in to grab her kid? That would probably be the best way to help out a fellow parent who appears to be juggling conpeting schedules for her kids.

OP, you could learn a lot from this poster and 00:27, who both came at this situation from a compassionate, helpful angle.

Too bad you are too self-absorbed to listen to them.

Are you really suggesting that I coordinate my daily schedule with this women so I can stand by her car for two extra minutes every day?

You're missing the point. You immediately think about how you can get this woman in trouble (timing her? Really?). A good person, like the PPs, would ask first how they can help this woman. Shame on you.

You're missing the point. I'm not timing her to get her in trouble. I'm timing her to make sure the baby isn't alone in a car for an unreasonable amount of time. And I'm not trying to "get her in trouble". Please grow up. I'm trying to gauge whether this behavior is sufficiently risky that I should raise it with her or have the center raise it with her. And I can't reorganize my life to make sure I coincide with her at daycare so I can stand by her car or check out her child (which would not even be permissible). So please stop obsessing about this-it's not going to happen.

OP You are being a bitch. MYOB. The baby is FINE, but you are an ass.

You have a few screws loose if you think the OP is the one with a problem here.

signed the OP.