NCS girls fianlly allowed to attend STA homecoming on their own, without a date

[Anonymous]

You all chose to send your children to single-sex schools people.

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Anonymous wrote:I actually wish our single sex boys high school would do something like this. You cannot attend homecoming without a date. Now a lot of these boys don't have anyone to take to the dance but would like to go (perhaps to meet girls??? What a novel thought!). Allow the sister school students to attend without a date and then the boys who go alone can meet new friends.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:You all chose to send your children to single-sex schools people.

We are at Holton and I LOVE LOVE LOVE not having homecoming. One less ridiculous thing to worry about. We keep a far distance from Landon these days too so there isn't much to worry about. I love single-sex schools.

[Anonymous]

Opening up the STA Homecomg Dance to NCS girls who do not have an STA date is bowing to pressure from the NCS mom crazies whose daughters do not get asked. You really think this is the fix for those fractured egos? It will just reinforce their feeling of inadequacy. Stop meddling moms. You are just making it worse for everybody.

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Anonymous wrote:The schools announced this year that NCS girls now have reciprocal priveldges - STA boys have long been able to attend the NCS homecoming dance without a date. I think this is long past due and fantastic news!

Are you naive, OP?

An STA boy who goes to the homecoming dance brings a date. Boys do not go stag to this one. So what is an NCS girl who attends stag supposed to do? Crumple against the wall watching as the NCS girls with dates glide by with their pretty corsages and handsome dates?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Opening up the STA Homecomg Dance to NCS girls who do not have an STA date is bowing to pressure from the NCS mom crazies whose daughters do not get asked. You really think this is the fix for those fractured egos? It will just reinforce their feeling of inadequacy. Stop meddling moms. You are just making it worse for everybody.

This is dumb on so many levels that it hard to know where to begin. Every sentence is wrong.

[Anonymous]

My DD (recent NCS grad) was never very interested in the STA homecoming. I think she attended once. After that, she declined invitations twice because she found it boring. She went to the NCS homecoming with bunches of friends. And contrary to PPs, lesbian NCS students already invite dates to the dance. Nobody cares.

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Anonymous wrote:Isn't this going to create some friction between the girls who go stag and the girls who are dates of the STA boys?

No, STA, NCS, and Beauvoir are all part of the Cathedral family and have a strong relationship that is getting even stronger. NCS and STA will always have a special connection.

So they can only date people from the Cathedral schools? Date a STA boy or go stag?

If the dance is hosted by STA, then STA boys can bring a date from any school in my opinion. Girls from NCS could attend stag because it is the sister school, but they can't bring a date (unless, of course it is someone from STA). I think that makes sense. If NCS hosted a dance, then the opposite would be true...girls could bring boy from any school, but STA boys can only attend stag or go with NCS girl.

And you are going to stand at the door and police all of this?

[Anonymous]

I think there are a lot of moms here who are reliving their own high school anxieties.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are a lot of moms here who are reliving their own high school anxieties.

Ya think?

I overheard a few moms gossiping how cute (or not) their DD's dates were, how creative (or not) the ask was, which pre-dance dinner was the best.

Yuck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Opening up the STA Homecomg Dance to NCS girls who do not have an STA date is bowing to pressure from the NCS mom crazies whose daughters do not get asked. You really think this is the fix for those fractured egos? It will just reinforce their feeling of inadequacy. Stop meddling moms. You are just making it worse for everybody.

I don't think this is the case. I think it is just the idea that being a sister/brother school that it is nice to invite the sister school to attend the dance. I don't think it is a big deal and I think it is a nice gesture. The Cathedral Schools are a family and they are actively trying to make that bond even closer so for those that have an issue with this or have a chip on their shoulder I suggest you get over it and just accept that these schools are part of a family and whether it is a perfect family or not - they are all connected and working to improve that connection even further.

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Anonymous wrote:Fact: In St. Alban's Strategic Plan that STA & NCS will continue to closer align academically and socially.

And teens are so into strategic plans.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are a lot of moms here who are reliving their own high school anxieties.

Ya think?

I overheard a few moms gossiping how cute (or not) their DD's dates were, how creative (or not) the ask was, which pre-dance dinner was the best.

Yuck.

Hmmm...STA homecoming hasn't happened yet so not sure when this was. Last year?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think there are a lot of moms here who are reliving their own high school anxieties.

Ya think?

I overheard a few moms gossiping how cute (or not) their DD's dates were, how creative (or not) the ask was, which pre-dance dinner was the best.

Yuck.

How is this different than moms any other school around the country?

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Anonymous wrote:You all chose to send your children to single-sex schools people.

We are at Holton and I LOVE LOVE LOVE not having homecoming. One less ridiculous thing to worry about. We keep a far distance from Landon these days too so there isn't much to worry about. I love single-sex schools.

Holton has the holiday dance in early December. Same type of issue. Plenty of Landon boys at that dance.