Favorite thing about your affair partner?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is available
She is gullible
I don't have to take her anywhere
She knows not to call or email or text
I don't have to buy her anything, not even lunch
She is easier than ordering a pizza.

Isn't she lucky!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Potential...

The fact thatbhe knows me. Really knows me.
He's seen me at my worst and still thinks I'm amazing
We go back 10 years and I love that he has seen me grow up spnto speak, and me him
His arms.
The steamy make out sessions we used to have
The endless flirting
The way be makes me like the most beautiful thing on the planet
The way he laughs
The way he stares at me
That he can call my bs
That he's a man in every sense of the word
That he loves his mom and sisters more than anything

He is a man in every sense of the word but he is lying to his wife, kids and the mom and sisters he loves - he sounds like a real winner go for it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's in great shape, has lots of stamina and is very well endowed.

Sounds like my ex - enjoy the sloppy seconds

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Proximity. He lives next door.

That should end well.

Hahaha the neighbor!!! Finally!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one who reads these threads and wonders if my wife is posting here? This definitely feeds into every insecurity and feeling of inadequacy I've ever had in my marriage.

Is she satisfied in bed? Do you treat her with respect? If yes to both, don't sweat it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seems the puritan, bible-waving crowd is up early today...

No, just the normal ones.

So what makes "the normal ones" click on the thread they they will find gross?

Get over yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do tell.

For me:

His smile.
His extraordinary generosity.
His humor.
His hair.

you are in love. it's sweet. was his generosityore materialistic or of the soulful type?

ouch sorry for the typos. can you describe his generosity....does he give you actual game? can't he get caught?

I am totally imagining the being in love part. I would never have an affair partner but understand the draw of the chemistry and love feeling... getting to be there for the pleasure and the fun and escapism.

OP here. His generosity is in the way he cares about others, the way he shares with others, the way he helps others succeed and gives them what they need to grow. He is other-focused in his friendships, personal relationships, and professional relationships. So much so that I don't think he is selfish enough sometimes.

Sounds like you are his selfish pleasure, not sure how to phrase it, but essentially you are the part of his life that is purely for him. It must feel good to be that for him.

[Anonymous]

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He doesn't expect me to cook for him, clean for him or supplement his income (ie, he's not looking for a wife)

I think I should start a new thread called "Men: does your wife cook for you, clean for you, or supplement your income?"

Mine doesn't do any of that.

...What does she do?

[Anonymous]

But she's discovered through sex that he's her soul mate. You can't put a price on that.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Proximity. He lives next door.

That should end well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is available
She is gullible
I don't have to take her anywhere
She knows not to call or email or text
I don't have to buy her anything, not even lunch
She is easier than ordering a pizza.

Isn't she lucky!

She thinks she is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is available
She is gullible
I don't have to take her anywhere
She knows not to call or email or text
I don't have to buy her anything, not even lunch
She is easier than ordering a pizza.

Isn't she lucky!

She thinks she is.

She doesn't want her other bfs to know

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one who reads these threads and wonders if my wife is posting here? This definitely feeds into every insecurity and feeling of inadequacy I've ever had in my marriage.

Is she satisfied in bed? Do you treat her with respect? If yes to both, don't sweat it.

Not really sure about the first one, but yes to the second one. Sounds like maybe I do need to sweat it a little. I am hesitant about the first one because if she were truly satisfied, she'd be more interested than 3 x per month, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is available
She is gullible
I don't have to take her anywhere
She knows not to call or email or text
I don't have to buy her anything, not even lunch
She is easier than ordering a pizza.

Isn't she lucky!

She thinks she is.

She doesn't want her other bfs to know

She can't keep a bf to save her life. It's amusing to hear about them, if they are real. I think she wishes I would be jealous.

[Anonymous]

It seems that honesty, character, trustworthy, and integrity don't get listed in this thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one who reads these threads and wonders if my wife is posting here? This definitely feeds into every insecurity and feeling of inadequacy I've ever had in my marriage.

I was thinking the same thing but about my DH. Maybe you're my DH. Wouldn't that be something.