Favorite thing about your affair partner?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Former AP

His inexperience but lust for learning.

His smell, his taste, the softness of his skin.

did he or she die?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is available
She is gullible
I don't have to take her anywhere
She knows not to call or email or text
I don't have to buy her anything, not even lunch
She is easier than ordering a pizza.

Yes. This. Sometimes I bring sushi and feed it to her. She thinks that's enough. Lol.

[Anonymous]

Her thigh gap

[Anonymous]

He's in great shape, has lots of stamina and is very well endowed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Proximity. He lives next door.

That should end well.

He could be her soulmate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Potential...

The fact thatbhe knows me. Really knows me.
He's seen me at my worst and still thinks I'm amazing
We go back 10 years and I love that he has seen me grow up spnto speak, and me him
His arms.
The steamy make out sessions we used to have
The endless flirting
The way be makes me like the most beautiful thing on the planet
The way he laughs
The way he stares at me
That he can call my bs
That he's a man in every sense of the word
That he loves his mom and sisters more than anything

You're in love. Is he?

[Anonymous]

He's hot
He gets off on the fact that I think he's hot
I get to teach him new things about sex
He won't mess everything up by falling in love and becoming needy
He doesn't expect me to cook for him, clean for him or supplement his income (ie, he's not looking for a wife)
He gives me advice when I need it
He doesn't try to stop me from seeing other guys
He lets me open up to him

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems the puritan, bible-waving crowd is up early today...

I'm an atheist. But I keep my promises.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her thigh gap

I'm a "bigger the cushion" guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems the puritan, bible-waving crowd is up early today...

No, just the normal ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's hot
He gets off on the fact that I think he's hot
I get to teach him new things about sex
He won't mess everything up by falling in love and becoming needy
He doesn't expect me to cook for him, clean for him or supplement his income (ie, he's not looking for a wife)
He gives me advice when I need it
He doesn't try to stop me from seeing other guys
He lets me open up to him

Finally, one sensible woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's not DH.

This, mostly. The big member and the patience AP demonstrates in bed are also huge plusses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
He doesn't expect me to cook for him, clean for him or supplement his income (ie, he's not looking for a wife)

I think I should start a new thread called "Men: does your wife cook for you, clean for you, or supplement your income?"

Mine doesn't do any of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
He doesn't expect me to cook for him, clean for him or supplement his income (ie, he's not looking for a wife)

I think I should start a new thread called "Men: does your wife cook for you, clean for you, or supplement your income?"

Mine doesn't do any of that.

Does she at least raise your children and give you sex?

[Anonymous]

Am I the only one who reads these threads and wonders if my wife is posting here? This definitely feeds into every insecurity and feeling of inadequacy I've ever had in my marriage.