Anonymous wrote:My wife did this to me, endlessly. Nothing more draining than to come home from work and get unloaded on again. Occasionally, sure. Every night, no.
I generally found the witching hour to be between 8-9:30 after the kids went to bed and before we settled into our routine. So I avoided her, either played sports, went to the gym, started doing work. She settled down or she called a friend.
I am sympathetic; she is a SAHM so claims she has no one to talk to. But, this is what girlfriends are for.
OP, make yourself scarce, see if that works.
Do not do this. That is awful and selfish. Avoiding your problems and conversations just makes them bigger and more difficult to deal with.
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