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| If a kid isn't playing, you should leave the team. It's too frustrating, especially in baseball. The coach should be ashamed. I have three boys, all played multiple varsity sports and club teams. Yeah it sucks on Varsity or Club if you don't get playing time but that's the way it is at that level. At the instructional level - no. It's about exposure to the game. A kid deserves a chance to play. |
Is your child new to baseball? At the majors level, the minimum playing time is 1 at bat and two innings in the field. This is well known amongst the parents and players. You can opt to have your 12 year old play AAA as long as he doesn't pitch. Players with low skill sets shouldn't be playing majors. You child is sitting on the bench, because the boy isn't very good. Majors is the most competitive level of play, and the players and coaches want to win. The skilled player, which sounds like your team's pitcher, will play the entire game. This is fielding the most competitve team. |
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Sounds like you have a bad coach. I've coached rec baseball & soccer and my kids are currently in soccer and travel baseball. I try to focus on four things when allocating playing time:
1. Kids want to play. 2. Kids want to win. 3. Kids want challenges and need them to develop. (This is #3 rather than #2 because given the choice, they would rather watch a teammate make the winning catch than be the one missing that catch that loses the game.) 4. Kids need incentives to stay focused. So my basic principle is equal play time. If possible, nobody should sit more than one inning in a row, and everyone gets to bat. But it's not usually possible to be completely equal, and there are different positions that get more or less action. I favor the better players in key positions (which positions are key depends on the age), but to encourage development, the less talented players also get regular infield play and opportunities at key positions. All of the above gets adjusted to account for attitude, effort, showing up to practice, and sportsmanship. Kids who goof off at practice will be first in line to sit a second inning on the bench, no matter how talented. Kids who really put in effort and try to get better are rewarded with more opportunities. As for my kid versus the rest - I try to emulate the best coach I've seen on any of my kids teams - we didn't even know which kid was his until 2/3 of the season was over. I'm not there but I'm working toward it. |
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I coach a rec team and am rather shocked about the asinine coach who posted earlier.
Our team has a number of kids who have been playing together for years and a few kids who don't even own gloves. Guess what, they are all getting equal playing time. So the new kids have never played, so they will learn on the job. It's rec, who cares? |
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Ignore troll posts.
Your kid most play the minimum required by the league rules. That is a minimum though. The reality is that every coach sticks kids in as much as possible. What can you do? First work with your kid. The only major leaguer I watched grow up - he and his dad, and often mom, did 100 ground balls finished with a throw to first, 100 fly balls, and 50 or so swings in a cage off a tee. Do that daily. Focus on good mechanics. If you don't have the experience, use an occasional visit to a good trainer to keep an eye on the mechanics. In pretty short order your kid will be competent. In a few months - he will be a good solid player. |
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Sorry. Meant to say every good coach sticks players in as much as possible. It's a team game. No kid is going to win or lose the game for the team.
Drop a fly ball and the winning run comes in? Why is that the winning run? Why didnt the team score another run earlier in the game? Baseball is a difficult game. You can be an all star if you are successful in getting a hit 30 percent of the time. |
If they play three innings they might only get to bat once - 9 players, 3 innings, 3 outs per inning, if they are getting a lot of hits that's it. The coach can't control everything. |