Would you have sex with your spouse

[Anonymous]

I'd like to have more. This past year I won the "lottery" (lyme disease and Sjogren's). Most days I feel like I went 12 rounds with the heavyweight champion of the world. Sucks because we used to shag like bunnies. If someone could wave a magic wand and take this away, I would gladly go back to boinking like crazy.

[Anonymous]

We are into our 52nd year of marriage and still share intimacy. Yes Dh is 75+ and Dw is 71. We still do penetrative sex and try sex toys and massages and oral. While it is not as peppy as it once was- we do enjoy our time together. We are both still quite healthy but DH now occasionally uses viagra to extend periods of intimacy. We play from 45m to an hour usually and end the session snuggling with napping.

Some six years ago to keep things going we sought a sex therapist to help us explore our relationship as it was getting too routine. This certainly helped. Either can initiate- being retired allows a lot of freedom during the day and night. Yes frequency is less - once a week or so.
We take more time with fore play and teasing. In some ways he has become a better lover, and in some ways we have lost peak orgasms experiences and sensitivity to touch. However life is good in our case , but perhaps more pleasuring than exciting.