Upper hand in your relationship

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, but it is impossible for any attractive, available 30 year old woman to have the problems of the OP. She could go online and get messages from 15 guys a night. Go to a bar with friends and get hit on nonstop. Take golf lessons where 99% of the participants are men. You are telling me that out of all those opportunities, she couldn't find SOMEONE decent?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a 30 year old woman and I'm having a hard time finding a guy who will give me a real chance. I have been told that I'm very attractive, (I have a sexy demeanor) very thoughtful, and have been told by numerous guys that I would be a great mom. I'm a teacher, work hard, own my own house, and is great with kids. It seems the men around here are looking for "status" - a lawyer or dentist wife who comes from money. If I'm at a bar, or meet someone casually and I tell them I'm a teacher, I lose their attention. Is this just DC? I feel like they immediately put me in the "fuckable" category, but not someone they would date seriously. What are you guys looking for?

It's very DC, and upper-middle class White People from the Northeast, in general.

I say that as a white guy from the Northeast, though from lower-middle/working class roots.