Separation & Divorce - Need Insights

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Anonymous wrote:Question to 16:14 and pp, so what happens when you dot down and have the divorce talk? I would think the other person is scared sh$tless seeing their life turned upside down. it must be a horrible situation.

Yep. My ex-wife didn't even have a sit down with me. He lawyer told her to clean out the savings account and leave the house. I noticed 10s of thousands of dollars missing from one of our accounts so I called my wife. She didn't answer. I went home to find things missing from the house. I was worried so I called the police because I didn't know what happened. the police were starting to look for her and I was calling all her friends when one of her friend admitted they knew where she was. She took the kids over to her house and she was there with 4 or 5 of her friends and their kids talking about the divorce in front of all the kids. My son told the therapist (the therapist told me later) that he said it was the worst experience for him.

I was blind sided. Betrayed. Hurt.

And what was her reason for the divorce and humiliating you? Why did you deserve that? I hope you are remarried to someone worth it.

you think doing that to someone can be justified? You totally overlooked what she did to the children. That behavior (and divorce in general) spreads pain all around and especially to the children. Is it every "justified" to humiliate a child in public like that because the husband deserves it? You must be a wonderful mother.... (sarcasm).

And you assume this was written by a woman - because??? I don't think either gender has the corner market on being horrible spouses or parents.