Does your spouse know your "# of partners " did lead them to believe it was higher or lower?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't matter to me unless the number was high, she had sex freely with others, then once we got married she started making me jump through a bunch of hoops before we could have sex.

You sound like a real winner. Sometimes life gets in the way of sex and your sex drive decreases. Just because a women had an active sex life in her youth ("gave it away freely" you'd say) doesn't mean she owes it to anyone to stay permanently horny forever.

Man here.

And THIS, gentlemen, is the kind of woman you really need to avoid in life.

Fuck like a rat with others in the past, but put on the brakes with hubby.

Lady (and I use the term loosely) it is YOU who sounds "like a real winner" here. What a duplicitous ho.

[Anonymous]

I don't even know my number. I'm late 30s and divorced, but I probably had in the range of 25-30 by the time I got married. I was STD free, that was the only thing that seemed to matter. I was never interested in my H's number either.

[Anonymous]

Husband thinks it was one before him. It was really like 10.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only numbers of interest today involve length and girth.

To the women before me, thanks for the good habits, boo for the bad ones

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do people have such low numbers? Where did you grow up? Alaska? Wyoming? The dakotas?

Actually, it would be quite the opposite.

If you grew up in redneck red states you would empirically, statistically, and actually have had way more sex partners.

I think PP was implying people lived in states where few people and therefore few sex partners.

I grew up in Atlanta. One partner. Zero before marriage, and obviously spouse knows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who actually discusses numbers of sexual partners anyway? I remember my first BF in my late teens and early 20s (and first sexual partner) was obsessed with numbers. Anyone since, not so much.

Or so you think.

[Anonymous]

My wife would be shocked if she knew there were only two others in my life before her. I am actually embarrassed by this because it seems like everyone has sowed a lot of wild oats except me. Think she knows deep down but has never said anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife would be shocked if she knew there were only two others in my life before her. I am actually embarrassed by this because it seems like everyone has sowed a lot of wild oats except me. Think she knows deep down but has never said anything.

My husband only had two before me. You're fine.

[Anonymous]

She did know. I lost count since then. She knows the rough number and really doesn't care. She knew who I was when she married me (It was part of the reason she married me).