Slow fading / Ghosting in long-term relationships

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman and I did it to my ex fiance - we had been together for 6 years. I did it because our relationship had gotten rocky, we had "broken up" countless times but had always wound up finding our way back to each other during..weak moments. There were some things that happened towards the end that were just final, last straws for me (and they would have been for most people). It was time to just end it before we ended up truly despising each other. Fact is, we should have ended it way before we did. So I cut off all communication. Wouldn't accept phone calls, refused to come to the door when he knocked...you get the picture. It was over.


But told him you were breaking up with him, right? That's not ghosting. That's just breaking up.
Anonymous
Tough advice but if you feel someone fading let them go. In other words quit before you get fired!
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