Is it possible to be addicted to a person?

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Anonymous wrote:Do we all have the same FWB? 28, green eyes, black hair? Ha that would be awkward.

Haha, I'm the op and that's not my fwb you're describing. The sex against the car sounds hot though!

It was! We almost got busted too! There were peolpe walking to their cars and he just covered my mouth and kept going. It still raises my pulse just thinkng about it.

Omg I had an ex like this-loved it. I'd go crazy when he'd cover my mouth and dog me!! Glad I'm not the only dirty bird. ?

Yes, there were a lot of scenes like that with him. It's still exciting thinking about them!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is addicted to her affair partner. Ugh.

Wow, that sounds like a story. Want to share?

Just tough to get over him. She's been unfriendly to me after I caught her and she cut it off.

why are you staying in the marriage? throw her out and kick the crap out of the other guy.

We have kids and a good home otherwise. She pointed out my failings that drove her and I kind of see them. We are in couples and individual therapy. I haven't ruled out divorce but I don't want to make any hasty decisions. A lifetime is a long time and I am hoping we can get over this as a blip. Remains to be seen.

Pal, I need to get a drink with you. It's partly YOUR fault she had an affair? You drove her to it? Lame. I can understand you have kids and don't want to do anything rash, but wow.

[Anonymous]

Toxic. Negative. Strange. Not a good guy. Never compliments. Lies. Addicted. These are your words.

I'm sorry, where are the benefits?

Sounds very undermining and unhealthy. Like he's setting you up and wearing away at your self esteem moment by moment.

I say personality disorder and go no contact. You can do better. This sounds awful. I mean no contact. It's not worth it. You can get laid anywhere.

[Anonymous]

I did. She was average looking but ultra sex drive. The minute her apartment door closed, it was nonstop for the entire weekend - kitchen counter, shower, floor, bed, you name it. Sex was like cocaine. But she also had a mean side so I ended it because I deserve better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I did. She was average looking but ultra sex drive. The minute her apartment door closed, it was nonstop for the entire weekend - kitchen counter, shower, floor, bed, you name it. Sex was like cocaine. But she also had a mean side so I ended it because I deserve better.

Dopamine release. It is truly a chemical addiction. Acts in the body and psyche the same way. It doesn't mean any if it is good for you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife is addicted to her affair partner. Ugh.

Wow, that sounds like a story. Want to share?

Just tough to get over him. She's been unfriendly to me after I caught her and she cut it off.

why are you staying in the marriage? throw her out and kick the crap out of the other guy.

We have kids and a good home otherwise. She pointed out my failings that drove her and I kind of see them. We are in couples and individual therapy. I haven't ruled out divorce but I don't want to make any hasty decisions. A lifetime is a long time and I am hoping we can get over this as a blip. Remains to be seen.

Good God, get some self respect and stop acting like such a worm. Kick her cheating ass out. Or leave and join the Foreign Legion or something. For chrissake don't just sit there while some other guy bangs your wife. She clearly regards you with complete contempt, and she is right. She is not going to "get over it." Do you think she'll ever forget you passively accepted being cuckolded? Because she won't.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I did. She was average looking but ultra sex drive. The minute her apartment door closed, it was nonstop for the entire weekend - kitchen counter, shower, floor, bed, you name it. Sex was like cocaine. But she also had a mean side so I ended it because I deserve better.

Dopamine release. It is truly a chemical addiction. Acts in the body and psyche the same way. It doesn't mean any if it is good for you.

The mean probably reinforced the dopamine from the sex. Her being mean also induced a charged emotional state and intermittent reinforcement is more addictive than constant rewards.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I did. She was average looking but ultra sex drive. The minute her apartment door closed, it was nonstop for the entire weekend - kitchen counter, shower, floor, bed, you name it. Sex was like cocaine. But she also had a mean side so I ended it because I deserve better.

Dopamine release. It is truly a chemical addiction. Acts in the body and psyche the same way. It doesn't mean any if it is good for you.

The mean probably reinforced the dopamine from the sex. Her being mean also induced a charged emotional state and intermittent reinforcement is more addictive than constant rewards.

Holy shit that's happening to me too! (I'm the op). When he cancels a date it just makes me want him more. Omg this guy is some kind of fucking mastermind. The next time he asks I am going to say no. I will quit this drug.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife is addicted to her affair partner. Ugh.

Wow, that sounds like a story. Want to share?

Just tough to get over him. She's been unfriendly to me after I caught her and she cut it off.

why are you staying in the marriage? throw her out and kick the crap out of the other guy.

We have kids and a good home otherwise. She pointed out my failings that drove her and I kind of see them. We are in couples and individual therapy. I haven't ruled out divorce but I don't want to make any hasty decisions. A lifetime is a long time and I am hoping we can get over this as a blip. Remains to be seen.

Good God, get some self respect and stop acting like such a worm. Kick her cheating ass out. Or leave and join the Foreign Legion or something. For chrissake don't just sit there while some other guy bangs your wife. She clearly regards you with complete contempt, and she is right. She is not going to "get over it." Do you think she'll ever forget you passively accepted being cuckolded? Because she won't.

I get your point. But I have to say she seems to have gone through some kind of phase I just don't believe this is really her. She seems almost like another person.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I did. She was average looking but ultra sex drive. The minute her apartment door closed, it was nonstop for the entire weekend - kitchen counter, shower, floor, bed, you name it. Sex was like cocaine. But she also had a mean side so I ended it because I deserve better.

Dopamine release. It is truly a chemical addiction. Acts in the body and psyche the same way. It doesn't mean any if it is good for you.

The mean probably reinforced the dopamine from the sex. Her being mean also induced a charged emotional state and intermittent reinforcement is more addictive than constant rewards.

Holy shit that's happening to me too! (I'm the op). When he cancels a date it just makes me want him more. Omg this guy is some kind of fucking mastermind. The next time he asks I am going to say no. I will quit this drug.

I'm the guy who was involved with this woman. Was so much happier when it was over, even though I was on my own for a couple of months and she called a few times. Seriously, she was playing me and I have more to offer a woman than being a stooge. No reason a woman and I cannot have an active, fun sex life but also connect and have intelligent conversation, right?